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Confuzled09
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 Posted: 01/22/07 - 08:13 Post subject: 14years old and unprotected sex |
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| OMG IM FREAKING OUT!!!! Me and my boyfriend (im 14 hes 13) had unprotected sex...he claims that he is almost positive he didnt get any precum in me and if he did it was a very very small amount. It was less then a minute the sex we had and he did not ejaculate in me. I have not had my period this month yet for it usually comes in late and my mom says it shud be coming in a week or less. I wake up this morning 1/22/07, we did it 1/19/07 and I have been having mild cramps ever since..but this morning I woke up with a side cramp. I really hope I'm not pregnant!! Please respond ASAP!!! (please) |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 11:28 Post subject: |
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well you should have taken the morning after pill, it has to be taken within 72 hours of having sex. so it is probably too late now.
sorry to break the news to you, but men can't feel precum escaping. your boyfreind wouldn't know even if he had. in that tiny amount of precum it could still contain millions of microscopic sperm. and guess how many sperm it takes to get pregnant? just one.
I dont want to scare you, however, your chances of pregnancy are certainly lower than if he had ejactulated inside you, but there is still that chance.
in the future. if you find yourself incapable of being able to use protection, I would go on the oral contraceptive pill. you can get it from your local planned parenthood or doctors office.
it involves taking a pill at the same time each day which stops you releasing eggs and therefore protects you from pregnancy. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 16:36 Post subject: tnx soo much!! |
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Hey! thanks soo much....but um do u think im pregnant? cuz like i have been cramping since we did it just no blood is coming out...please reply again ASAP...oh and if u cud e-mail me to***** the answer that wud be soo great!! Thanks a million
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 17:01 Post subject: |
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| I know your young and very afraid of the outcome of all this but the best thing to do is see a doctor. If your afraid of your parrents finding out then its time to really think about whats best for you. If you cant deal with all the issues you should be looking at your decisions more closely. Ok now for not so seroius me. There is no way to tell your preagnant untill you show signs. Even though many preg tests are like 90 something % correct there is no 100% way. Your mind is also gona play a ton of tricks on you and your body. These side cramps could be from anything. The lateness of your period could be from you stressing out so much. The body will do crazy things under stress. Best thing to do is HAVE PROTECTED SEX, go on birthcontrol....if its 2 hard to do these because of you age.....dont have sex. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 17:02 Post subject: |
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you could be, the chances are relatively low, but its all very possible.
you dont feel the symptoms of pregnancy until its been at least a couple of weeks after unprotected sex, but worry can make your mind play tricks on you, if your period is due soon your cramps are probably down to ovulation pains or your period coming. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 18:09 Post subject: |
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| ok new news!! my boyfriend and I answered some questions with w/e we thought wud help...unprotected sex...soft sex and lasted under 45 sec. What is the percentage of me gettin pregnant from precum now? (if its changed) |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 18:15 Post subject: |
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| Confuzled, its really pointless to ask thoes kind of questions on a forum. I'm not putting you down or saying its a bad question...but its so very hard to really determin even if you wrote a book on it. I've known people that have had unprotected many MANY of times and never goten preg, and on the other had I know it can only take once. The honest and only way to know if your preg is wait it out and keep doing the tests. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 18:18 Post subject: |
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it doesnt change,
whether the sex was rough or soft,
or if the penis was inside you for 10 seconds or 10 minutes.
the risk is still present.
unprotected sex is unprotected sex.
dont think of it in terms of "ooh a 46% chance" or "ooh a 12% chance"
there is either a risk or no risk.
and in your case there is a risk. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 18:38 Post subject: |
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| Ok well i hope im not pregnant...I am having cramps..and I have had lower back cramps so I am all hoping this is all do to my period coming soon? Thanks For all ur help...I wish i wasnt so stupid...god please get me through this.. |
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| Posted: 01/22/07 - 18:48 Post subject: |
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| You arnt stupid, and god wont get you though this...unfortunatly time will...and being human we all have to "wait" for time to do its thing. Remeber, these things happen to everyone. Try your best to be rational and calm about it..will make things easier regardless the outcome ^_^. |
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