18 Year-Old Virgin

eleanor · Silver Member Joined: 22 Jun 2000 Posts: 289

Hello. I'm 18 year old female and I have never tried sex in my life.
I have tried some techniques with my fingers but practically-I'm still a virgin. All my girlfriends have tried sex and I'm starting to feel like there's something wrong with me.
I had a couple of boyfriends in a past who tried to get me into bad but I was refusing it constantly.
I don’t know why I did it but I guess I was afraid, I don’t know. So, now when I would like to have sex, there is no one who would try it because the myth about my rejections has spread around! Please tell me what should I do? What should I know about virginity?

fonte · Silver Member Joined: 02 Jul 2001 Posts: 244

Hello. I have read your post and I see you are a bit disturbed about all this. Frankly, I can't see any reason for you to be upset. You have a right to decide what’s best for you.
You are 18 years old and for you, sexual life is just starting.
Everybody starts experimenting sexually at different ages and at different rates. Nobody should do anything they aren't comfortable with or feel ready to do.
I'm a female with 10 years of sexual experience and believe me when I say- it's better to wait and get a nice guy the first time around as you'll remember your first sexual experience all of your life. I waited also till I was 20 to have my first experience and I didn’t regret at all.
There's plenty of time for sex and not so for regretting.

18 Year-Old Virgin

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