1 month late for my period, bad headaches, nausea, and back

ttjustine · Newbie Joined: 22 Feb 2007 Posts: 10

Ok. So fist off, I would like to thank those who are taking there time to read and write comments on my little issue hear. Second off, I would like to explain my story. Jan 28th 2007, my boyfriend and i were fooling around. We did not have sex, but he did stick he penis on my vagina. Then he accidntly went. When he went he was not on my vagina, but he was near. He also got some on my butt. So I whipped my butt with the tissue, then I procided to whipe my vagina with the tissue ( I know very stupid..but didnt realize it at the time.) both my butt and vagina had a ton of sperm on it. I also orgasmed alot, so that made a nice little stream for the sperm to swim up off. To make matters worse, I was sceduled to start my period very soon, so my egg was already down, and therfore easier to get fertalized. Today is Feb. 22 2007, and I still havnt gotten my period. I can always tell when my period is about to come, and I havnt gotten that feeling yet. I have gotten numerous feelings tho. I have had a ton of white cleary sticky discharge (sorry for the graphic image), nausea within the first 2 weeks (but that has settled down alot), I have had lower back pains, and sudden sharp pains in my stomach. I also sometimes get dizzy (but that is rare). Sometimes I feel as if I am getting mini cramps (like i am about to start my period) but then they go away. This is all a bit graphic, but i also feel like i have to digest my food more. I am alot more moody and tired laltley, and now im just scared. I am in college and am 18 years old. This cant happen to me right now. What do you guys think?? Thanks!

Aussie Lass67 · Newbie Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 1

Hi TTJustine,
While pregnancy usually requires full penetration and ejaculation,the sexual activity you describe is a bit of a grey area conception-wise from the limited info you've told us..Semen that is in direct contact with your vagina is definitely not what I would describe as safe sex,although how deeply the semen has been deposited inside you is a bit hard to deduce from your letter.Stress can definitely interrupt your menstrual cycle,but from the scenario you described,added with your symptoms & the fact that you did not use any contraception suggests to me that pregnancy is definite possibility.Home pregnancy kits are easily available from pharmacies,although I would follow this up with a pregnancy test with a doctor you feel comfortable with ASAP.The sooner you know the answer,the sooner you can explore your options.I would ask the Experts here or your local hospital or GP for the contact details of honest,capable counsellors in your home state.I do not know what the laws are where u live,but I understand not all states allow their counsellors to advise you of ALL your options.(Adoption,motherhood,abortion etc) & some are funded by religious or political groups reticent to inform you of all your legal choices.Whatever your decision,find a counseller that will support you in making the right choice for YOU,& if you need to move interstate to make that choice,then do so.If they bully you towards ANY one choice,resist & seek out an adviser who will assist you in carrying out YOUR choice,whatever that may be.
Even if the tests prove negative, & u aren't pregnant,please be prepared next time you are that intimate and ALWAYS practise safe sex AND contraception.NEVER have unprotected sex again.Apart from pregnancy,intimacy of this kind leaves you vulnerable to HIV and other venereal diseases,so a condom is a must.A doctor can advise you of which contraception method is right for you.Although the Pill is the most common & highly effective method of birth control,it is not suitable for everyone. These days there are many forms of contraception(patches,injections,myriad others) that your local GP can advise you of.
Before you have sex again,seek out your local library,gynecologist,doctor, or family planning clinic and educate yourself as much as possible on your reproductive health, what your rights are under your constitution over that health,and your right to access medical and counselling services in your area.Remember:information is power!You owe it to yourself to find out how to look after yourself and your body.Bringing a life into the world is the most important responsibility in the world.You need to ask what is the best decision for you and your baby if you are faced with that responsibility.
Be kind to yourself,and Good luck.And if any guy wants to coerce you to have sex without a condom,tell him to f$%^ off-but not with you.

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hi my name is Jessica im 17 yrs. old and i have a major problem! My boyfriend and I were having sex and the condom broke! I been having major mood swings, stomach is getting bigger and kinda hard. Right after eating I feel sick and every time i pass the fridge i get the eurg. to snack! Could I be?? Really worried!

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wow, great article.
for some reason i seme to fall into the same thing that your going through. it seems kinda weird i know, but just about a month ago, i had sex, and did the same thing you did, he came and it got on my butt, but then i whiped if off and of couse didnt realize were i put that napkin, well i was a month late also, it did bring some headaches and stomach cramps and also some horrible dizzines, but it seems to be i had my period, but i still seem to be havin horrible headaches and my head spins.

any idea?

thanks. Sad

iluvcup_cakes · Newbie Joined: 02 Jun 2008 Posts: 1

I can totally relate to your topic. Except I'm 15... and I have never came close to having sex. I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for close to 9 months now. I'm scared to tell my mom because she'll think I've been lying to her. I am on birth control but only for the shorter periods. I cant remember the last time I had my period. But I know its been a little over a month. I dont know what to do either because my period has never been late. Help...?

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my last period was June 6 and now it is July 29 and still no period i took 2 home test blood test and nothing but i feel pregnant I'm having bad head ackes and i'm eating more and dizzyness I'm suppossed to go to the doctor on thursday but i cant wait lol please someone help

guest55 · Newbie Joined: 02 Oct 2008 Posts: 2

Hi,

series of my last periods dates - 20 Aug, 22 july, 16 June, 15 may night, 16 april, 18 march, 15 feb, 19 jan.

I had sex with my boyfriend twice last month. Say (19th sept) and about a week and a half before 19th sept. We had unprotected sex the 1st half when we started off and when he was totally high he wore a condom and continued but before he ejaculated he withdrew his penis (with the condom on) - (withdrawal process). I got my last periods on 20th Aug and my periods usually come in time between 16 to 22nd of every month as shown above, but this month i missed it. Sad

I took a home pregnancy test on 30 sept morning and evening both proved negitive. I also took the same test on 1st Oct morning as soon as i got up, but that too proved negitive. I am not sure if the test is showing wrong or am i pregnent ?? I have not yet got my periods, and i do have alot of food cravings.. and i have been eating alot of papaya and sesamen seeds for my periods to come fast but its not coming... I do feel like going to the toilet every time i am done with eating.. I not sure if these are the symtoms of pregnency.. I do feel ver lazy too. I did also have a lot of stress and deadline to be met at work this month and i have worked late nights for the same... worked like 12 to 16 hrs a day... I am not sure what to do now ? I do feel like i am getting my periods but then i do not get it.. I do have alot of white thick liquid comming out but not my periods.... could i be pregnent... ??? Please advice what i should do now ??

HELP PLEASE !!

- I am 24 yrs now.. and my preiods are very regular and right on time. This is the 3rd time i have ever had sex in my life and this is the 1st guy i did it with.

guest55 · Newbie Joined: 02 Oct 2008 Posts: 2

Hi,

series of my last periods dates - 20 Aug, 22 july, 16 June, 15 may night, 16 april, 18 march, 15 feb, 19 jan.

I had sex with my boyfriend twice last month. Say (19th sept) and about a week and a half before 19th sept. We had unprotected sex the 1st half when we started off and when he was totally high he wore a condom and continued but before he ejaculated he withdrew his penis (with the condom on) - (withdrawal process). I got my last periods on 20th Aug and my periods usually come in time between 16 to 22nd of every month as shown above, but this month i missed it. Sad

I took a home pregnancy test on 30 sept morning and evening both proved negitive. I also took the same test on 1st Oct morning as soon as i got up, but that too proved negitive. I am not sure if the test is showing wrong or am i pregnent ?? I have not yet got my periods, and i do have alot of food cravings.. and i have been eating alot of papaya and sesamen seeds for my periods to come fast but its not coming... I do feel like going to the toilet every time i am done with eating.. I not sure if these are the symtoms of pregnency.. I do feel ver lazy too. I did also have a lot of stress and deadline to be met at work this month and i have worked late nights for the same... worked like 12 to 16 hrs a day... I am not sure what to do now ? I do feel like i am getting my periods but then i do not get it.. I do have alot of white thick liquid comming out but not my periods.... could i be pregnent... ??? Please advice what i should do now ??

HELP PLEASE !!

- I am 24 yrs now.. and my preiods are very regular and right on time. This is the 3rd time i have ever had sex in my life and this is the 1st guy i did it with.

1 month late for my period, bad headaches, nausea, and back

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