2 Virgins in bed is causing some problems

Chaos666 · Newbie Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 2

Ok, So both me and my girlfriend are virgins... hell she's never even masturbated, but have gotten intimateas of late. we both now want sex, but our foreplay and making out has lasted up to three hours, in between which i've gotten hard and soft alot. She also has some strong vaginal muscles, my finrgers we're actually clamped when she orgasmed and i couldn't take them out. This seems to be what i think is the problem, as i'm usually hard when we are ready to do it and i get the condom on and i try to push in and i pretty much can't. I'm unsure as of what is the real problem because out of the couple times we tried, i wasn't hard enough to push in, it felt like it wasn't going in right, and the last time i popped early before we even started i'm at a loss at what i can do. I have very little experience in the art of lovemaking and no experience with intercourse so i can't tell if it's a problem with me, a problem with her, or a little of both. any help would be appreciated

MisterHo · Newbie Joined: 17 Jan 2007 Posts: 94

That's a common problem a lot of people face during their first attempt to have sex.

Use lots of water based lubes on both you and her. Do NOT try vaseline or some kind of lotion because those break down condoms.

For your first time, it's good to just use the standard missionary position. Then when youre trying to put it in, have her hold her lips open with her fingers and spread her legs apart.

From then on it's smooth sailing. I'm pretty sure you can take it from there. Good job on using the condom the first attempt. Don't forget to use one again.

Good luck

2 Virgins in bed is causing some problems

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