Abortion Vs Childbirth

lulita · Silver Member Joined: 25 Oct 2001 Posts: 285

I had an abortion few years ago and that was the only time in my life I had to do it. It was terrible experience which I never want to go through again. Now I have daughter who is 20 years old and I am worried about her. I guess she will take care about unwanted pregnancy but anyway I am really scared. Is there any good thing to say about abortion, or everything keeps telling us that is terrible experience for woman.

sumlin · Newbie Joined: 05 May 2005 Posts: 14

There are a lot of discussions about abortion VS childbirth. It is known that when a first time pregnant teenager has an induced abortion, it is not sure how it might affect her future. Does she know for sure when she'll have her first term birth? Answer is no, and neither does the abortionist. Her first term birth could be a year away, ten, fifteen, or twenty years away. If the induced abortion procedure has the side-effect of sterilization, she might enter a high breast cancer risk group. This group is childless women. This is something that young girl should know, and what abortionist should warrant her. Off course that is not something usual and most abortions pass without it. That is why I am sure when young girls have an abortion, they are definitely not making their lives easier. Their problems are just beginning, so Abortion Vs Childbirth is clearly answered.

hunnie17 · Newbie Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

heyy... im new to this site. i am only 17 and is about 8 weeks pregnant. and im scared and feeling weird feelings of which are mostly negative. stress and everything put a weight on me. and im worried about having an abortion or either having childbirth. im obviously not ready. i should've known when i had unprotected sex... but i was so stupid and hoped that i wouldn't get pregnant. now i am. and now im asking myself why me? i feel terrible im so not ready. what's the best thing that a 17 year old girl do who's suffering in this situation.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

The best thing is to do what YOU want to do.

I 100% support any CHOICE, regardless of how old you are, or if you had unprotected sex.

I have had an abortion, I was put asleep at the clinic and never felt any pain, and I have never once regretted it.

Look deep inside of yourself, and truly decide what you want out of life.

ImmortalOne · Gold Member Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 437

Dear Hunnie,

Your best options is to look at all your options. Talk with your family, and if you are religious at all those figures in your life. Friends and family are going to be your biggest support group no matter what you choose.

I had a child when I was 17, I raised her on my own, and now we are a happy family 14 years later. It is hard to be a teen mother, but do what you need to and it all works out for the best. Everything happens for a reason.

If you choose to not keep the baby, there are so many couples wanting to adopt children, I hope you choose what is best for you.

Guest · Guest

Umm I dont regret having a baby at all... u are so retarded if you get an abortion I love my daughter to death she is 2 months old.. and im 16 U'll regret it if u have an abortion I swear.. Childbirth isnt all that bad as what people make it sound.. Yeah ur sore but oh well its done and its over with and then u got a bundle of joy in ur arms its totatlly worth it... Anyways... tahts all i got to say

YOUNG MOTHER · Newbie Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1

Abortion is brutal murder of A CHILD, IT IS A BABY AND NOT A LUMP, DO NOT EXPECT THAT TEARING OUT SOMEONES HEART AND BRAIN AND CUT OFF THE ARMS AND LEGS - IS NOT HURTING. IT HURTS AND BABIES CRY. OUR DAUGHTER WAS BORN AT HOME AND I FELT NO PAIN WHEN SHE SLIPPED OUT, CONTRACTIONS DID HURT A BIT, NO MARATHON BUT MORE LIKE DOING 500 SITUPS, BEWARE OF MALE PERSONNELL AT BIRTHCENTERS, DON´T HAVE PIGSPERMS. A LOVING HUSBAND HAS BETTER HORMONES THAN ANY MIDWIFE, HORMONES THAT GETS THE CHILD OUT VERY SAFELY AND QUITE WITHOUT PAIN. REMEMBER TO SMILE KISS HUG HAVE SEX - YOU CAN´T DO THAT WITH A MIDWIFE. kEGEL IS GOOD EXCERSICE WHILE PREGNANT, SEABAND HELPS AGAINST MORNING SICKNESS.

Guest · Guest

hi, im eighteen years old and i have a very serious medical condition. i got pregnant at seventeen it was very hard and unexpected but i had my daughter who is now 10 months old. it is going to be hard but youll get through it. dont get an abortion YOU'LL REGRET IT...

kbailey · Newbie Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 3

I am pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. He already has 2 kids. At first I was scared, but I wanted to keep it, but now after telling my mom she has abortion in my head. I'm 20 and have a good job. I'm not READY for a kid, but I know that I could do it. I don't know what to do anymroe because my family is telling me I'm runing my life by having a kid with him because he has 2. I don't know what to do.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

I have had an abortion with ZERO regrets, I finished college, and make so much more money now than I did back then.

CAN you do it ALL ALONE?

Obviously he has no problem leaving past g/f's, do you feel like you can raise a baby by yourself if he leaves you.

Your mother obviously knows that SHE would be the one you go to for help, but perhaps she 'chooses' to not want to help you ..

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