Addicted to Messenger services and web caming

TOM1 · Newbie Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 7

These days the only thrills I appear to get is surfing the net and getting strangers messenger id's and chatting to them. Im a guy and I usually end up masterbating on cam for them after they ask me. I usually do anything they ask and after I feel ashamed. I dont think Im bi but I do it mainly for men.

How can I brake this addiction as its beggining to take over my life?

Thanks

angel baby · Newbie Joined: 01 May 2006 Posts: 138 Location: Washington

Did you ever think about tring to see a councelor? Or maybe getting a girlfriend? I used to love to chat on line too.. Mainly with the opposite sex! When you are talking to complete strangers about sex, and everything, i have to admit it is kinda hot! But if it is taking over your life you should try and get some sort of help! The first step is admiting you have a problem!! Smile

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Thanx for the reply. The part of the problem is that I do have a girlfriend! A long term girlfriend. When she's out and Im bored thats when it occurs.

I suppose at least Im not putting myself in danger of exposing myself to desease.

Tom

angel baby · Newbie Joined: 01 May 2006 Posts: 138 Location: Washington

Thats true. At least your not stepping out on her.. How does she feel about this whole thing. is she comfortable with you doing that for other people? I know i wouldnt feel to comfortable if my man was doing that. but thats just me. Maybe you should try and keep you mind occupied other then going on line when she is away try going out to see a movie or watch a movie at home, just stay away from the computer!! i used to love to go bowling with my friends when i had nothing better to do!! now i have a daughter to keep me busy!! take on a hobby, or hang out with your friends more often!! Well best wishes to you!! Very Happy

TOM1 · Newbie Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 7

Thanks Angel.

I have managed to control it a bit better now.

I realise its a quick fix and Im not showing gay tendancies.

I would never physically cheat on her. Its a glorified wank really (with someone watching).

I think I am in control of it now!

Tom

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