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 Posted: 05/05/07 - 04:25 Post subject: Anal penetration and Erectile Disfunction |
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Can anal penetration cause Erectile Disfunction. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 33. He was addicted to porn in the past and said he would masturbate several times a day while using toys to penetrate his anus. When we begin sex, he is hard, but shortly thereafter he gets soft. On a rare occasion he actualy stays hard, but he can't cum. Please help me. This is really taking a toll on our relationship.
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lrdicuss
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| Posted: 06/08/07 - 16:25 Post subject: |
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Your answer is no, anal penetration is not associated in any way with errectile disfunction... Using anal toys(in some men and not neccesarily gays or all gays, a lot of straight men use toys too) can stimulate a better orgasim as it applies pressure to thier prostate which is where Mr.Semen comes from... : ) However, on reading that I'm gonna tell ya something... if he's using anal toys and you can't keep him arroused he's either a closet gay or bi-curious wanting to try guys for a change... :/ Yes straight guys use toys too and would never DREAM of having a real penis in there... but honestly, if he's like you said.. addicted to porn and uses or sometimes uses anal toys on himself.. he probably doesn't have an issue getting hard, keeping it and getting off... it's something he is not telling you... If you wanna try to save the relationship I suggest you use the toys on him during foreplay and for intercourse buy him an anal plug... : )
Just don't focus on the gay thing, unless you've wondered it too... but at least talk to him about it.
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Codie22m
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| Posted: 05/02/08 - 04:29 Post subject: anal stimulation and porn |
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Before you rush to the conclusion of him being gay, ask him what kind of porn he watched - that might give a better answer.
Also, it's possible that he's less sensitive to stimulation since he used to watch a lot of porn. It may be that he needs longer foreplay or enhancements to the sexual play (such as lingerie) to arouse him.
You could also reverse the roles and use a strap-on to penetrate him - which may get him hard, or just make a good alternative to him penetrating you  |
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