Posted: 01/09/07 - 00:00 Post subject: Annoying girlfriend's parents
I have a huge problem with annoying girlfriend’s parents. They are interested in everything are curios of every aspect of my life they’re so annoying that I’m thinking of splitting up with my girlfriend. It started to affect my life so much that I’m almost depressed for it.
I can’t believe this question. I haven’t heard such tough question for quite some time now. I don’t know, maybe you’re the one that doesn’t tolerate anything who knows; maybe you are a tough person to deal with. Anyway if it’s not so a little joke won’t harm you. I’ll tell you how I got resolved the same problem I had. The only difference here is that I had annoying boyfriend’s parents especially the mom. That boyfriend is now my husband and their parents are still so annoying but I won’t let myself get depressed for that. I talk to them in every situation even when I dislike that and by the time they’ve learned to accept me the way I am-and by the way I’m totally normal person, but you know how some people are. Anyway you’d be surprised that also people like that might help you sometimes, you might learned something from them also just find the way how to get them. All this is worth if you love your girlfriend truly and if not turn around and find another one- don’t waste your time.
I left a girl once because her parents completely controlled her and i'm glad I did. I can't stand it, and when her parents put an end to our relationship (she was 18 years old) but she came back to me with the "we can still date, just not tell anyone" i had to pull the "lets just be friends" line until i could get enough distance from her that i could lose contact.
I think my situation was a little different, and you need to find the right actions to take for yours. Sounds to me like the parents just want to get to know you and that's a really good sign. Take the time to get to know them also, parents don't always have to be someone you hate.
it's normal for parents to want to know something like that. you are dating their daughter and they want to know that they can feel safe with you by her side. that you are doing good for her and not bad. Yeah it's annoying but that's parent hood. It doesn't sound to me like you love the girl too much cause then you wouldn't be depressed by her nosy parents. you would understand that they are just looking out for their little girl. one day when you become a father to a baby girl you will understand better.
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