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grover
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| Hi, I think that I am very strange. I have problems when meeting women. They are not expressed if I talk to a woman that I am not interested in, but if I like the woman I am about to meet, the problem occurs. I feel anxiety and fear. Can you please help me? |
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raffarty
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| Posted: 05/06/07 - 17:09 Post subject: |
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| Hi, I know a lot of people that feel the way you do. Feeling anxiety and fear, when meeting other women, is a problem of being insecure. You can try to do what I do. When you see a woman you like, take a deep breath. Hold for a couple of seconds and let it out. And you are set to go. Of course, you need to have planed what you are to talk about. For that matter, you need to know what to ask her. For example, you can ask her if you can join her or if you can buy her a drink. Do not be discouraged if the first woman you talk to is not interested. Just try again. I time talking to beautiful women will become a natural part of your life. |
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Approach Women With Ease
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| Posted: 05/25/08 - 18:02 Post subject: Approach Women Easily |
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Hi!
You are as "strange" as the other 97% of the men out there.
The most men who feel fear before talking to a girl accept this thing and forget about it. They forget about the idea that there is another world out there. A world without boundaries and control.
I remember the first time I approached a girl and my legs were literally
trembling. Now, approaching a beautiful is like talking with an old buddy.(In 98% of the situations.)
There are two possibilities to get past this thing:
1) Approach, Approach and Approach (I mean hundreds of women ) For some people the number of approaches will be less and for others will be higher(some will need thousands of trials) This one will take you a lot of discipline and constant but slow improvement.
2) You change how you think and feel internally about the situation of meeting new people. You change something internally and quickly you test with an approach. You make adjustments and change again and so on... By applying this method you can change fast or slow. It will depend more on your desire to change yourself. If you want to apply a lot; you will be over forever this fear in less than 30 days.
In these times, many technologies, for changing your emotions in minutes, are emerging.
Good Luck! Check out also this helpful link:
http://www.squidoo.com/ApproachAnxietyCure/ |
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Monkey293
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| Posted: 05/25/08 - 19:12 Post subject: |
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confidence is the key here! you need to be happy with yourself before you go talking to women!
i like men who have confidence (but not arrogance) to come speak to me! most women are nervous about speaking to guys so i wouldn't worry too much!
take a few deep breaths and go for the plunge, and if rejected, try try and try again! |
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