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tripastep
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 Posted: 06/23/07 - 00:27 Post subject: Any guys out there... I need answers!!! |
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So, I know this guy. He's liked me for three years straight and he thinks he's in love with me. The other catch is, he's my best friend. We talk about everything. Well, almost everything. After a guy likes you for so long, has stayed committed, and is a perfect gentleman, you start to wonder whether you like him back. He has asked me continuously for me to be his girlfriend. He's so sweet. But I just haven't been able to say yes. I don't know what has held me back. Lately, I have wondered many things and have found questions I want to ask him, but know that I can't. It would hurt our relationship as friends and if we became more, it would most likely kill that too.
First question: Do you masterbate?
I mean, it's just something I want to know. I do it, and I just don't want to be the only one.
Second question: Does he ever look at me in places?
It wouldn't bother me at all. I do it to him. Even though he is my friend. Isn't it natural?
Third question: Does he ever think dirty thoughts about me and him?
Even though we aren't going out, I do. I think about having sex and kissing and such.
Fourth question: Will he ever try anything with me?
I mean, he's liked me for three years and has been a perfect gentleman the whole time. Is he just too shy or what? Sometimes I just wish he would. But then, I don't at the same time. He's a really good guy.
So, any guys out there, please tell me what you would do. I know you don't know me, but put yourself in his place. What do you do/think/whatever when it comes to the girl you like? Thank you guys. |
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delta1135
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| Posted: 06/23/07 - 02:06 Post subject: |
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1) Yes I do, everybody did or dose, thats human nature.
2) Well the way you described him i would say yes.
3) Define Dirty, like he wants to have sex with you thoughts, then probibly yes
4) If your drunk mabey, its hard to tell.
How old is this guy? |
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tripastep
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| Posted: 06/23/07 - 22:08 Post subject: |
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| He's fifteen. I'm fourteen. Not good? |
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AJ88
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| Posted: 06/23/07 - 23:46 Post subject: |
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Hay tripastep, 
| Quote: | | First question: Do you masterbate? |
Yeah who doesn't  hehe 
the Results of a resent survey...
"Do you (Guys) masturbate?"
"Yes, all the time (87%)"
"yes, once a week (6%)"
"yes, once in a while when i'm bored? (5%)"
"no, yuck (2%)"
"Final Results"
"98% yes"
"2% no"
"120 Guys surveyed"
| Quote: | | Second question: Does he ever look at me in places? |
I don’t know if a survey on this,
But if he likes you then id say Hell Yes lol it is human nature,
| Quote: | | Third question: Does he ever think dirty thoughts about me and him? |
Again if he likes you then id bet on it, so Yes lol 
| Quote: | | Fourth question: Will he ever try anything with me? |
It depends on what you mean by "Try anything with me?" 
You say "He has asked me continuously for me to be his girlfriend"
Then that is him trying to get closer with you & this is when things tend to slowly heat up, if you know what I mean lol
If he is in love with you, or if he cares for you, (& if Hes Not Scum) then he would not try anything when/if he or you are drunk,
 Someone who Try’s It on with a Drunk Girl Are Scum I’m my Eyes.   
But if you are both Drunk then who knows?,  
If you both get Drunk then something may happen But I Bet that it would be a Big let down as, Trust Me Drink & sex Don’t Mix!!  ,
O & I guess the Age Thing is up to you’s but I will say this..
The BEST thing I Ever did was Waited till I was 16 to lose my Virginity!
At 16 I Knew & understood SO much More about Relationships  & Sex .
2 of my m8s Wish they had Waited to,
1 is a guy & he lost his at 13 & he says he Hated losing it at that age from that night, to this day,
& the other is a girl & she lost hers on her 15th Birthday, she still says she wish she had whetted till she was 17 or 18. 
Don’t Let Any One Try & Push You In To Something If You Are Not 100% Comfortable With it!
Hope this helps.
-AJ- |
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| Posted: 06/24/07 - 09:42 Post subject: |
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| tripastep wrote: | | He's fifteen. I'm fourteen. Not good? |
Then I would say he defiantly look at you and has some dirty thoughts. Boys of this age often do. |
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colemc
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| Posted: 06/25/07 - 15:17 Post subject: |
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| if he likes you, ask him whatever you want, if he's not ok with it then he's a jerk, with the masterbating question just ask him and then tell him that you do it(before he answers) i didn't really understand the second question, if you have sex thoughts about him then he probably will have them about you, if he is anything like the guys i know or have heard of then he will love you a ton more for asking, i wish a girl wuld ask me stuff like that |
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delta1135
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| Posted: 06/26/07 - 00:02 Post subject: |
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| Guest wrote: | | tripastep wrote: | | He's fifteen. I'm fourteen. Not good? |
Then I would say he defiantly look at you and has some dirty thoughts. Boys of this age often do. |
Above Was Me, I forgot to log in. |
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