Posted: 12/04/07 - 19:54 Post subject: Anything I can do?
Ok, I'm a 23 year old female virgin, and I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend. My problem is I'm afraid of the pain. Yes I know it's going to hurt or be uncomfortable no matter what I do, but I'm very tight. My boyfriend is about average size, but when he sticks just two fingers inside me it hurts pretty bad. Is there anything we can do to help make it hurt less? I know pleanty of lube is an option, but is there any exorcises I can do? Thanks!
It doesn't HAVE to hurt! Many people have sex for the first time and experience no pain at all. However since you did mention fingering hurt it would be best to prepare for the worst. Like you said- use lots of lube. Make sure you are aroused and calm because if you aren't aroused (you wont be wet) and if you arent calm... he wont be able to push inside you because youll be tensed up. Fingering you more might help, especially before sex, and maybe even using a dildo that is the same size as him or just a little bit smaller to see what it would be like before you actually do have sex. Go slow and don't forget to say stop if it hurts too much. Good luck.
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