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heddi
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 Posted: 08/06/05 - 02:00 Post subject: Are There Actually Women Who Enjoy Anal Sex |
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Hello. I'm 24 year old male and I have some questions for all women out there. You see, these last couple of months I have talked a lot about anal sex with my friend.
So they told me that they all practiced it with their girlfriends and that it was great- for them and for girls.
So, just the other day I have tried it to do it for the first time with my girlfriend. When I tried to penetrate her she screamed because she was in lot of pain and told me that we will never try anything similar again. She also told me that no woman can enjoy in this awful act. So, I started doubting in what my friends told me earlier about it.
So, I would like to know are there actually women who enjoy anal sex?
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ramona
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| Posted: 09/29/05 - 08:09 Post subject: |
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Hello. I'm a woman and I will tell you some facts about why I love anal sex which I practiced with my boyfriend several times. In the beginning I also didn’t like it that much but with time- I become addictive. You see, there is some kind of rules about anal sex.
Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong.
So, you probably tried to penetrate her to quick or with not enough lubricant. My sex was boring before I tried this anal thing and believe me-doing something "nasty" like this could only spice up your sex life.
Start with a well-lubricated finger and then try to penetrate her with your penis. Just remember-patience and a lot of lubricants is the key of good anal sex. Wear a condom all the time because you can still get some STD doing it.
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Mustang Sally
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| Posted: 05/23/06 - 13:28 Post subject: Anal sex |
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OK so ya I've done alot of anal sex with my boyfriend and he has a bead implant near the head of his penis and it hurts when he puts that in but other than that i love it so how do i get past that bead?    [/quote] |
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| Posted: 06/08/06 - 20:52 Post subject: |
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i have had several girlfriends and i have tried to have anal sex with all, but they all refused cuz my penis is quite large and they say girls dont enjoy anal sex! Is it true at all?
how can i make my girl let me have anal sex |
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Synx
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| Posted: 06/10/06 - 20:22 Post subject: |
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 some adive maybe on avoiding the extremly painful anal sex for woman
use alot of lubricant maybe a vibrater to before you just insert your dick (make sure theres always a condom) losen the hole up with the vibrater so she becomes a bit more relaxed the more tense she is the more it will hurt after shes become use to the feeling insert ur head in make sure she before you is feeling comfortable with the feeling after the head gets through after that the pain decreases make sure there plenty of lubricant, thats the way me and my husband tried it the 2nd time around because the first time around ..just didnt work for me so we actually researched this and that advice made it so much less painful |
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Ready_Lube
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| Posted: 06/11/06 - 00:35 Post subject: |
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Yes, actually a BIG yes! to say it bluntly...many women love anal sex but no women will like it if it's not done correctly. How do you do it the right way you ask...well first you must be in an excited state of mind, foreplay is the key.
You will need a really good personal lube that is not runny or sticky, you need a lube that stays put and is non-sticky, non-irritating and safe. (I would reccomend "Ready Lube Natural Personal Lubricant" if you want a lube that's tried and trusted).
Never force anything into the anus! You might want to use your finger(s) at first and work up to inserting your penis. Anal sex is really enjoyable and soemthing worth doing and it sounds like your GF is open minded but that you guys just didn't know how to do it. With a little help from a great lubricant and communication you will both be having the time of your life  |
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| Posted: 07/02/06 - 15:53 Post subject: We do it all the time |
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| My Hubby and I enjoy anal sex every time we have sex. We will start with me masturbating with plenty of lube while he watches. This turns us both on. While masturbating I will also run my fingers over my anus to get it well lubricated. After a while my hubby will start fingering my anus while I finger my clit. What a feeling this is. Then hubby will start to penetrate my anus with his finger, then 2 fingers, then 3 or more until I am wide and relaxed. He will then slowly slide his penis inside my anus, all the while I am fingering my clit and vagina. OH WHAT A FEELING. After a while of pumping my anus he gently slides out of my anus and finishes up inside my vagina. This way we both cum together. I like it SO much, I can’t have it any other way. |
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Lori
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| Posted: 07/02/06 - 21:35 Post subject: Re: We do it all the time |
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| Guest wrote: | | My Hubby and I enjoy anal sex every time we have sex. We will start with me masturbating with plenty of lube while he watches. This turns us both on. While masturbating I will also run my fingers over my anus to get it well lubricated. After a while my hubby will start fingering my anus while I finger my clit. What a feeling this is. Then hubby will start to penetrate my anus with his finger, then 2 fingers, then 3 or more until I am wide and relaxed. He will then slowly slide his penis inside my anus, all the while I am fingering my clit and vagina. OH WHAT A FEELING. After a while of pumping my anus he gently slides out of my anus and finishes up inside my vagina. This way we both cum together. I like it SO much, I can’t have it any other way. |
Hi! Although i agree with you with most of what you said, i just wanted to give you a piece of advice! You shouldn't go into vagina after the anus. This way you can easily transfer bacteria from anus to vagina and cause an infection. Certain infections could even impair fertility, and there is no need to go through those nasty symptoms of urinary infections and taking antibiotics.
Anal should be your last stop! Ot lets better say its last stop. As far as I know, it is really hard not to cum after anal for a guy!
Have you ever cummed during an anal! That is perfect! |
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| Posted: 07/06/06 - 12:07 Post subject: What is the best position? |
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We tried anal for the 1st time this am. Didn't get very far becasue it hurt. So I thought to do some research to get ready.
What position should we be in. I (female) was laying flat on my tummy and him behind and over me. Should I be on my knees of something? |
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| Posted: 07/26/06 - 03:14 Post subject: Re: What is the best position? |
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| beasleychurch wrote: | We tried anal for the 1st time this am. Didn't get very far becasue it hurt. So I thought to do some research to get ready.
What position should we be in. I (female) was laying flat on my tummy and him behind and over me. Should I be on my knees of something? |
I practice anal sex with my boyfriend frequently and for me the best position happens to be facing downwards on my knees and him behind me.make sure to position ur butt so that ur comfortable.AND MOST INPORTANT OF ALL make sure to use lots of lube on his penis and your anus. |
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