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NewKid
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 Posted: 07/24/07 - 19:46 Post subject: Bi-Curious |
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im straight but i have had feeling about the same sex, like sexual feelings I have a close group of friends that i can talk to about anything most of which are girls, i have these moments where i wonder what it would be like to kiss them or maybe even more, should i ask them if they ever have thoughts like this about the same sex or just let it go
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hyzmarca
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I don't know your friends and don't know how they would react. You do know them and probably have some ideas about how they would react.
This is a situation where I have to ask "what advice do you want us to give you?"; because that is the only question that matters. Do you want us to sa "yes" because you want to share this with them or do you want us to say "no" because you are afraid of how they'll react?
It is probably a little bit of both, I'm sure, but I'm equally sure that there is one answer that you would prefer over the other.
But I will say that, if you do choose to be open with them about this, to go slow. Ask them about their feelings and talk to them about your feelings in abstract first, because you introduce your feelings about them specifically.
You all might be more comfortable talking about doing things with 'girls' in general than they would be talking about doing things with each other in specific, which could be uncomfortable if they don't feel the same way.
Also, if they don't want to talk about it then don't press the issue. |
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lackofpleasure
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| Posted: 07/24/07 - 21:19 Post subject: |
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I think we all get those conflicting thoughts, its curiosity and I also read an article it can be to do with how much attention you received as a child.
Personally Im straight and Im never going to ever experiment, Ive got better things to do with my life, I get the odd thought but thats just imagination when I was younger, I dont give it a thought now, theres more important things in life to be concentrating on. |
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KrystalAries
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bring a freaky russian girl into your little circle ... she'll bring out the freak in all of you ...... j/k 
but really, I had two best friends, one russian girl and one mixed like me .... and we used to joke around about it a lot ..... pretend we were trying to seduce each other and stuff and one day we were playing truth or dare with some guys who dared us to kiss, so we did .... and after a while, we didn't care and would make out for the guys fairly a lot ....
one time i was hanging out with my russian friend and her boyfriend and she was giving me a lap dance and her phone fell out her pocket into my lap ... she put it in between my legs and her boyfriend kept calling it so it would vibrate while she grinded on me ... all of that wasnt necessarily that she liked me, just playin around to get her boyfriend all excited and well we're best friends and of course we like each other ....
other times we would be playin around and we'd always smack each other on the ass or (playin around as weird as it is...) humping each other and stuff .... just laughing and havin a good time ....
two personally sad things resulted from all this .... when me and my other friend stopped being friends with the russian girl (not related to our Bi-Curious antics at all) the whole freaky girl-on-girl stuff stopped too... and i had figured out (on my own with minimal help from my russian friend) that I'm bisexual .... so the girl who i'm still best friends with, I've had a crush on her since 6th grade and we're going to 12th now and I know I cant get to kiss her and stuff anymore because theres the possibility she'd get all weird .... I think shes the kind of girl who would play around with girls only for guys' pleasure ... too bad 
me and my female friends have talked about experimenting with girls before .... the girls who I mentioned before: well the russian girl ended up being Bi-Curious and i think she considers herself bisexual now, but the mixed-race girl told me that the russian girl is bi and made a weird face and said it as if it was something almost disgusting .... and she told me about some girl at her school who calls her beautiful and stuff and it creeps her out ......
my other two best friends from school: I told them that i made out with the other two girls .... one of them seemed mad excited about it and was all "ooooh you're experimenting !!" and the other was all " wat ?!? did u like it ??" and tries to convince me that I'm not gay or bisexual ....
you never kno how people will react ... chances are you should joke around about it sometimes and they will eventually open up. Or be confident about it and they will think that if you don't feel all uncomfortable about it then teasing you would make no sense and they will answer you seriously ....
plus these are your best friends .... they should accept you however you are ....  |
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