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 Posted: 01/26/07 - 16:52 Post subject: Bleeding, did i loose my virginty? |
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| I have a big problem. Yesterday my boyfriend fingered me and he put his two fingers inside me, and i bled a lot. The thing is that i was a virgin before this happened, so i am really worried: Did I just loose my virginity? |
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| Posted: 01/27/07 - 15:10 Post subject: |
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| Well its possible that you could have broken your hymen, but losing your virginity means actually having sex, so no, you havent lost your virginity, but like i said you could have broken your hymen. |
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| Posted: 04/25/07 - 11:17 Post subject: hey |
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| yes u lost it |
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| Posted: 04/18/08 - 15:24 Post subject: |
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| pouts wrote: | | Well its possible that you could have broken your hymen, but losing your virginity means actually having sex, so no, you havent lost your virginity, but like i said you could have broken your hymen. |
Some people believe that breaking your hymen means that you lose your virginity. But you can break your hymen by just playing sports and i dont think that can count as losing your virginity.
Personally I too believe that losing your virginity happens only when you do really have sex.
I am guessing you will probably not be wanting to hear this but, if you are not wanting to lose your virginity anytime soon and even if your boyfriend feels the same way too, touching each other there will be very hard not to progress into something more and then sex before long. I can tell you from experience, its quite hard, just the same as how kissing become french kissing and then making out and so on..
Do what you think is right for you as an individual and he should respect that otherwise its not worth it. If he doesn't respect it, then he's not someone with whom you will have a very long relationship cause you'll find him not respecting your wishes concerning other things (big or small) and thats not right.
As they say if he loves you he will wait OR if he loves you and if he is worth it, he will wait till your ready.
There is always more than one person out there that you can live a happy life with. There's more than one possible soulmate for you. Dont be too eager it will happen sure enough! Let things like that happen as you feel comfortable.. God has bigger plans for us than we have for ourselves! -Plans to prosper us and not to harm us. You just have to have faith in God because we dont always know thats sometimes things just dont turn out "ideally" for a reason. God bless |
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| Posted: 04/18/08 - 15:26 Post subject: |
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Some people believe that breaking your hymen means that you lose your virginity. But you can break your hymen by just playing sports and i dont think that can count as losing your virginity.
Personally I too believe that losing your virginity happens only when you do really have sex.
I am guessing you will probably not be wanting to hear this but, if you are not wanting to lose your virginity anytime soon and even if your boyfriend feels the same way too, touching each other there will be very hard not to progress into something more and then sex before long. I can tell you from experience, its quite hard, just the same as how kissing become french kissing and then making out and so on..
Do what you think is right for you as an individual and he should respect that otherwise its not worth it. If he doesn't respect it, then he's not someone with whom you will have a very long relationship cause you'll find him not respecting your wishes concerning other things (big or small) and thats not right.
As they say if he loves you he will wait OR if he loves you and if he is worth it, he will wait till your ready.
There is always more than one person out there that you can live a happy life with. There's more than one possible soulmate for you. Dont be too eager it will happen sure enough! Let things like that happen as you feel comfortable.. God has bigger plans for us than we have for ourselves! -Plans to prosper us and not to harm us. You just have to have faith in God because we dont always know thats sometimes things just dont turn out "ideally" for a reason. God bless |
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| Posted: 04/22/08 - 10:14 Post subject: |
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simple answer - NO hunny you HAVE NOT lost your virginity!!!
Losing your virginity means you have to have vaginal sex with a guy. If he didn't put his penis inside you, you have not lost your virginity! |
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No, you're still a virgin until a penis goes into your vagina. I broke my hymen when I was 11 by falling onto a bar, ( I was walking across wet monkey bars). However, I didn't lose my virginity until years later.
You could break your hymen with tampons or by horseback riding. But you're definitely still a virgin. |
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