Kirk C
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 Posted: 05/13/08 - 22:58 Post subject: Can men come without knowing? |
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The answer is yes and no.
First, you asked if men could come without being aware of it. Some men experience a nocturnal emission without realizing it. It's not often, as the feelings and dreams are usually so vivid that they wake and recognise that they have ejaculated.
Second, what you really mean to ask is if a man might come during INTERCOURSE and not know it. The answer is "highly doubtful". Part of the point of having intercourse is the powerful satisfaction that accompanies ejaculation.
But the real point is this: If he had penetration with her... even slightly, without any protection, she runs the risk of pregnancy. It doesn't matter if he came, or ejaculated, or not. When a man is sexually excited...excited enough to be errect and penetrate, there are sperm in his "pre-com" lube that dribbles out the end of the penis. Therefore, they are at risk.
This is one of the reasons why condom use is urged at all times!
If he isn't sure, or can't remember if he came, it doesn't make any difference. If he had penetrative sex with her, she is now at risk.
She should get a home pregnancy test right away. If she wants confirmation, she should go to her medical clinic and have a professional test. They can also advise her what to do, and how to avoid this in the future.
USE CONDOMS! |
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