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emz221
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 Posted: 07/13/07 - 18:55 Post subject: Can't cum when having sex but can through masturbation... |
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| I'm an 18 year old female and i can cum easily when either myself or my boyfriend masturbates me... yet when having sex i have never had an orgasm yet, i have faked it A LOT! I know that many women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation but i would like to know if there is a way that would make it easier for me to climax when having sex... |
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daisy33loca
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LUbrication, relaxation and trying positions.. also comunication with your partner as far as what feels good and what doesnt as well as when he hits a good spot to talk him into continuing to do that until you are close or there.
Sad truth is... most of us can not and possibly never will have orgasm via vaginal intercourse alone.
You may be able to do a combo of both direct stimulation via your or his hand/fingers, a toy or a cock ring that has an attachment that reaches teh clitoris to help stimulate it.
I used to fake it.. but I can tell you that hurt my boyfriends feelings a lot.. now we are married together and the sex is great.. but only with communication and understanding. There is nothing wrong with you, nor is this something to be embarrased about.
One thing we did try that worked... he began with us in a missionary position but modified.. he used his fingers/hand on my clitoris,, when I was good and going he then used the head of his penis on my clitoris and when I was just begining to orgasim he penetrated me with gusto and I kept orgasiming for quite some time. problem with that, he was too excited feeling that, and needed to cum way too soon....LOL I could have kept going for 15minutes for just that one orgasim.
Relax, have fun, listen to your body and talk with your partner.. you will find what works for you. |
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