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 Posted: 09/18/06 - 17:48 Post subject: Can't reach orgasim |
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| I am 25 years old, I have been married for 7 years now, but cannot have orgasim while husband is inside of me, he always say it is so good and hot that he has to pause like every minute, could that have something to do with me not having one? I have orgasimed while he was using his tongue, during our 6th year of marriage. I had one, about 4 times during different sex periods but he's tried over and over again but it will not happen, I can't even get one when I try all the methods of touching myself, nor if I get on top. Are there any other techniques I could try or use besides medicine that I don't want. All I want is to orgasism while my husband penis is inside of me. Can you please help me out with this situation? Thanks Nan[/i][/b] |
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| Posted: 09/20/06 - 18:08 Post subject: |
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Well, there are stuff you could use to try to increase your sensitivity. Are you saying that you don’t even enjoy clitoral stimulation at all? Are you taking any medications? Certain medication could kill your desire and sensitivity or dry your vagina for no sexual pleasure.
There are these clitoral pumps that use vacuum to bring blood to the clitoris and make it more sensitive and enhance the pleasure. They are used until clitoris is stimulated and then they are removed. I have also seen pumps that make your labia vibrate and this is said to cause tremendous feeling-I haven’t tried it though.
All these bumps need to be carefully used because too much pumping can even cause some damage to the erectile tissue.
Has your husband tried finding your g spot inside the vagina, near the opening with his fingers or with a tip of his penis? You may want to try that.
Look for those pumps online or in a specialized sex-shop under vaginal and clitoral pumps. |
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| Posted: 10/14/07 - 13:36 Post subject: Lack of sensation while having sex? |
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| Sex fells good but not great. Is the reason I can not orgasm because I am not sensitive enough? Even when I touch myself it just does not do it. What can I do to increase my sensitivety? |
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| Posted: 10/15/07 - 20:12 Post subject: |
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| I HAVE OR HAD THE SAME PROBLEM. I AM STARTING TO GET THEM OCCASIONALLY. WHEN I WAS WITH THE SAME MAN FOR 6 YRS HE ONLY MADE ME ORGASIM LESS THAN 5 TIMES. THE OTHER GUYS TAKE USUALLY AT LEAST A YEAR TO MAKE ME HAVE ONE. FOR A LONG TIME I THOUGHT MABE I CANT HAVE ONE AT ALL BUT I WAS WRONG. YOU HAVE TO TEACH THEM HOW YOU LIKE IT. IF IT'S STARTING TO FEEL REALLY GOOD DON'T LET HIM STOP. MY EX USED TO DO THAT AND SAY THE SAME THING. ONE WAY I DO SOMETIMES HAVE ONE IS TO GET ON TOP AND INSTEAD OF BENDING MY KNEES I LAY THEM STRAIGHT AND LAY ALL THE WAY DOWN LIKE IM SLEEPING ON MY STOMACH. THEN I THEN I JUST ROCK FORWARD AND BACKWARD LIKE IM ON A TRACK OR SOMETHING AND CONCENTRATE REALLY HARD. TELL HIM WHEN YOU LIKE IT. ANOTHER THING THAT SOMETIMES WORKS IS WHEN HES ON TOP TYPICAL MISSIONARY POSITION EXCEPT I PUT MY FEET ON HIS CALFS WHEN THEYRE BENT AND HE PUTS BOTH HIS HANDS UNDER MY ASS. ONE ON EACH CHEEK. AND THEN DO IT LIKE THAT IT FEELS GREAT AND SOMETIMES IT WORKS TOO. |
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| Posted: 10/17/07 - 11:29 Post subject: Getting off should be easy |
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| While laying on your side keep your lower leg straight and have your partner kneel on either side of your lower leg. Have him pick up your upper leg and bend it so your knee is as close to your breast or touching your breast. If he elevates your leg slightly it will also help. This should open your vagina for easy entry. If he lowers himself to a point of almost sitting on your leg he should be in the proper position. But as someone else said don't let him stop during intercourse. If he has an orgasm to quickly then re stimulate him to get him hard again and start over. This position should allow him to get as deep as possible and if he is holding your leg it will free up your hand to manually stimulate your clitoris to add to the sensation. It sounds like this is more his problem than your problem. He seems more worried about his orgasm than yours. I didn't see your age but he should be good for having at least 3 or 4 orgasms a night. Also having him give you oral or having oral together should be very stimulating for you both. If you can get him off orally and then have mutual oral as you get him hard again the feeling of getting pleasured and giving pleasure should help you when you move on to vaginal sex. I hope this helps. |
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| Posted: 09/15/08 - 06:10 Post subject: orgasim |
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| i am 30 years old and been in several serious relationships. i enjoy sex but have never had an orgasim during sex. not sure if ive ever had one at all. most of the time my mind starts to drift off and the mood is lost. i dont know whats wrong with me.....i know i am able to please they guy, but i dont know why i am not able to experience an orgasim.. whats wrong with me???? |
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