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judye
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 Posted: 12/19/05 - 01:00 Post subject: Cant get a girlfriend |
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I have huge problem and I do not know who to ask for advice. I will try here, hoping you could tell me what to do. When I was younger, I had girlfriend but when we broke up, I told her I am gay. After this, people around accepted me this way, although I am not. Now I want normal relationship, but I cannot get a girlfriend. Can you tell me what should I do?
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jurgensen
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I had the same problem few moths ago, since I decided to have a girlfriend. However, I never date anyone, so I did not know what to do and how to show I want relationship. I have to say I had luck so nobody thought I am gay, but still that was hard. I do not understand why, but it seems many boys have problem with first time, and they cannot get girlfriend that easy. However, I realized first and very important thing is not to be nervous. You should simply approach her in person, in chat or email her as you would if she is your friend. The best is just to be yourself and have a normal conversation as if you met at a party or cocktail lounge. When you finally find a girlfriend, what you do with that new girlfriend is your business. As you should know, talk is the most important to get health relationship, so you need to find that kind a girl you can talk to easily. I wish you all luck, as I had because I found great girl, although it was not easy, because there was a long time I was in same position that I could not have a girlfriend.
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