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trick
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 Posted: 07/31/06 - 22:39 Post subject: Could I be desensitized from masturbation |
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I would like to know if i can be desensitized from masturbation?
I have been having an issue lately, I masturbate every other day or sometimes everynight.
I don't use my hand I kinda use my bed, hard to explain. But ever since I started masturbating that way I cant mastubrate with my hand anymore. I'm still a virgin, but I was wondering if this could be a problem when engaging in sex. My girlfriend wants to have sex and I'm trying not to masturbate for a while so that some sensitivity comes back before I do. I don't want to have sex and then not be able to 'finish' you know.
How can I 're-sensitize' myself? |
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| Posted: 03/29/07 - 01:16 Post subject: |
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i would love to hear a response to this, because i have the same fear
masturbated semi-regularly in adolescense and then when i had sex the first and second times, i was not able to finish. i could not help but wonder if my penis was too desensitized. |
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Mr Ian
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| Posted: 12/02/07 - 19:07 Post subject: |
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Ahh Yes you are right, masturbation ABsolutely effects your ability to perform and finsih, even to find your partner attractive...gee dont sound suprised!
But theres a big PROBLEM...Once you have figured out whether or not masturbating effects your orgasm ability...what are you going to do about it anyway?
Who do you know that has been able to say "I used to masturbate every day, and now...I have not for 3 months"? Not many.
My point is that if unless you understand what masturbation does to your BRAIN, you will have no chance in stopping.
If you can answer this questions of why do we do it, and so often, then you really will still have no chance of destroying the habit for longer than 3 weeks ( some cannot stop for over 3 days hey ).
I tried to stop for over 10 years, its a real monster to slay, but...guess what I SOLVED THE RIDDLE and I the simple steps I used have helped 100,000 plus guys break the habit.
So what changes can you expect when you stop mastubating every week, or every day?
Guess what! it makes a massive difference to your energy, peace, focus, relationships, sexual performance and satisfaction (for both of you)...I could go on. Did I mention it is fantastic to feel in control again!
I am so stoked to be free from the addiction...
You will never know if you are addicted until you try to stop...If you have not gone 10 days without masturbating...chances are you are in for a real shock when you try to stop.
If you want to take control and destroy the habit of porn, crazy thoughts, inappropriate desires, and masturbation, then drop me a line and I will help you out.
Peace to all the guys who are loving the habit still, enjoy it while you still believe your in control.
Have an awesome day!
Ian |
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| Posted: 12/06/07 - 19:55 Post subject: |
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I kinda think the same things, kinda worried.
Every week or two I decide to cut out the masturbation for a few days. Then I do beat it and it's a lot better, but its real hard to make it those few days.
No problem though, so many people out there masturbate every day, I dont feel bad about it, and I only stop to enhance it at a later time. If you know youre gunna bang your girl sometime soon, stop for a 2 or 3 day break before it. Plenty of people mastubate before a date or before sex so that they can last longer.
Plus we're at the age where our sex drive is at its highest, so its kind of accepted that we are extremely horny and need to solve that somehow... |
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