Deciding upon abortion

morant · Newbie Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 13

A friend of mine is in the middle of deciding upon abortion. I dislike abortion. She said that she had to make decision between wrong and less wrong. I can see that she’s going through hell. She has to decide very soon, and I’m not sure should I reassure her to do it.

rebekkah · Silver Member Joined: 19 Jan 2002 Posts: 261

I believe that in some women it is not about money or independence. Some women just do not want to be pregnant. It may be frightening, all that changes that affect female body. No one can get right decision except her. Once you make the decision, your life won’t be the same, no matter what you decided.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

You should support her, let her know that you are there for her no matter what happens..
That's what friends do, they look out for one another. ALTHOUGH YOU dislike abortion, this is not your abortion, it is your friends abortion, and she is allowed to make this call.

pigtails · Newbie Joined: 08 Mar 2007 Posts: 5

I Have A Week Before My Abortion And I Was Wondering If It Will Hurt? They Told Me That They Were Going To Numb The Cervix But Im Still Worried

And I Was Wondering If They Would Let My Boyfriend Come In With Me?

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

PIGTAILS- If you ONLY have a shot to the cervix, it will hurt.

You should look for a clinic that offers IV SEDATION, Twilight anesthesia, or general anesthesia, these would make the aboriton painless!

DID you ask the clinic if they offer IV sedation? MANY clinics offer it, but you must ask for it and pay extra.

TO find a clinic that can offer a painless abortion..

gynpages.com

We are not allowed to link for you, so you will have to enter all the other www. stuff yourself.

IF you tell me what state you are in, I can also help you find other clinics which offer a painless abortion.

REMEMBER , abortion hurts MANY MANY MANY times more than childbirth.

pigtails · Newbie Joined: 08 Mar 2007 Posts: 5

ok well thanks and i will ask and i live in new york hopefully that will help

pigtails · Newbie Joined: 08 Mar 2007 Posts: 5

And i Was Also Wondering If They Will Let Anyone Come In With Me When This Is All Getting Done?

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

They would only allow someone in the waiting room, because the surgery room must be kept as clear as possible, and they do not often have room for many people.

Here are some abortion clinics in NY that I have heard good things about.

I cannot link..So you would need to enter the www. yourself, okay =)

1) dremily.com -This clinic offer asleep sedation for NO EXTRA CHARGE. You could choose 'abortion lite', whcih is where you are awake, but asleep is better. This is a less expensive place, but still very good. They have locations is Bronx and manhattan.

2) buffalogyn.com - This is in case you are IN Buffalo =) This clinic has been in operation for many many years, they have an excellent reputation! IV sedation abortion costs 450$

HERE is a website where you can find many more clinics.

gynpages.com/ACOL/newyork.html
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pigtails · Newbie Joined: 08 Mar 2007 Posts: 5

ok well thanks agian

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I went to Dr. Emilys for a abortion and they help you out alot, there are the best fecility out there for this

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