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funstuffz12
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 Posted: 01/31/07 - 19:37 Post subject: Does Masterbating Help Sex Last Longer? |
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Hey!
I am a 16 male and I am close to losing my virginity to a girl I really like. I was just wondering if I masterbate the day before, will I be able to last longer when we actually have sex?
Can I refrain from masterbating for a few days and still last as long if I did? Like, I am actually trying to refrain from masterbating so the sensation is even better.
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BedsonTrudeau
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| Posted: 01/31/07 - 19:55 Post subject: Masturbating can cause coming soon |
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| Masturbating has been known to make men come sooner, so refraining is probably a good idea if you want to last longer. You can also pause during sex to prevent from coming at that moment so it can be more pleasurable for her. |
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robicat110
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| Posted: 01/31/07 - 23:41 Post subject: Re: Masturbating can cause coming soon |
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| BedsonTrudeau wrote: | | Masturbating has been known to make men come sooner, so refraining is probably a good idea if you want to last longer. You can also pause during sex to prevent from coming at that moment so it can be more pleasurable for her. |
for me personally, if i were to masturbate maby 45min- an hour before intercourse it would last maby twice as long as if i didnt, but thast me. but he is right about pausing during sex, it does keep it "at bay" but dont pause too long becase you may lose your errection. but if you choose to masturbate you have to KNOW that you are going to have sex that day |
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funstuffz12
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| Posted: 02/01/07 - 15:55 Post subject: |
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| Ok, but I mean, would I last longer if I masturbated the day before rather than not masturbating for 6 days? |
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helpisontheway
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| Posted: 02/01/07 - 16:05 Post subject: |
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| funstuffz12 wrote: | | Ok, but I mean, would I last longer if I masturbated the day before rather than not masturbating for 6 days? |
the day before would be too far away.
if you came before you had sex, i.e. oral or mutual masturbation, it would make you last longer,
as you know, when you've masturbated several times in one night, the second time is longer, then the third time takes longer again.
but the day before won't affect anything, because overnight you would have time to "recharge". it has to be immediately prior to intercourse. literally within 30mins.
to be honest, I am a girl, and I would rather have 5 minutes of good sex rather than 10 minutes of mediocre sex because the guy was devoting all his concentration on lasting as long as possible. most teenage girls don't orgasm from sex alone anyway. |
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LadyStorm
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| Posted: 02/01/07 - 19:30 Post subject: |
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| Maybe it will not sure... and is it spelled masterbating or masturbating ? |
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| Posted: 02/02/07 - 10:56 Post subject: |
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| masturbating. |
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| Posted: 04/16/07 - 13:23 Post subject: |
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Here's what I'm able to do... this takes MONTHS of practice and requires a huge amount of concentration to do it... when you feel like you're getting somewhat close... block it out of your mind, if you do it right, you will still feel sex, but it will feel duller, (if you're really good almost numb) this will calm your call to orgasm for the time being. If you're able to, you can do this a number of times during sex, making it possible to last for up to 2 hours, (I used this when I lost my virginity and lasted an hour 45.)... also... if you don't masturbate for 6 days prior... you might get 3 minutes of sex before you cum... it's best to masturbate (Like others said) about a half hour before.
To answer your question, you will last longer if you masturbate the day before versus a week.. however if you don't do it shortly before sex, it won't make much of a difference. |
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