Don't think girlfriend likes sex!

TheKaka · Newbie Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Posts: 2

My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about 8 months now. We live together but I masturbate more than having sex. I ask her alot if she wants to have sex but most of the time she turns me down. She doesn't like me to masturbate and says it means she doesn't satisfy me so I don't tell her I masturbate.
Also when we do have sex she only wants sex to be quick and 95% of the time she'll only want to do missionary nothing else. I love sex but my sex life is pretty boring.

Any advice would be appreciated???

Nomad1985 · Newbie Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 77 Location: NY, USA

Ah, that can lead to many problems in a relationship. Both of you would have to try and do more for each other. Perhaps you should try and focus more on her pleasure more, rather than having sex maybe you could offer to go down on her or ask her what she would like sexually. Bring up the conversation of sexual fantasies of what you would like to do with each other and see if you can find something she would enjoy. As for her, she needs to understand that you have sexual needs as well and would prefer to have sex with her but she needs to be open to doing more. Both of you need to open up, be honest, and communicate your wants and needs. Sex is a two-way street, you both need to have some enjoyment in it.

TheKaka · Newbie Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Posts: 2

Thanks for the advice will do that. Had a little chat with her last night she said that she fantasies about doing lotsa different positions. But wen we do have sex it not like that. I don't unerstand Confused

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Maybe I buy her some romance novels since girls who read them are twice as likely to have sex according to a survey I read.

Don't think girlfriend likes sex!

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