Easiest way for female to orgasm?

Ameillia · Newbie Joined: 30 May 2007 Posts: 7

What is it? I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for at least a year and I have not orgasmed once. I'm not really upset about it or anything, but I don't get much out of sex anymore and it gets to the point where I just tell him to finish up. We have tried every position out there and it just doesn't do anything for me. Any suggestions? please?

BedsonTrudeau · Moderator Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 818

Well, that must be frustrating!

I assume you're in your 20's. First off, it's much harder for a woman in her 20's to get an orgasm than in older ages. So, you're much more likely to be able to orgasm when you're older.

I know that doesn't help you now. Try adding a lot of sexy stuff to your sex life, such as lingerie, massages, music, candles, chocolate, etc. You've probably tried this already, but get to the point where you're very emotionally turned on. For a woman, it's mostly about emotion, so if you can feel very connected, your chances are much better.

Once you feel connected and are having sex, tap into how you're feeling. If you can concentrate hard, you may be able to orgasm.

If you tried all of this and/or none of this working, see an OB/GYN. Maybe they can help you.

Easiest way for female to orgasm?

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