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 Posted: 01/09/08 - 16:08 Post subject: Embarrassed about masturbating |
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Im 14
everybody on here seems to say that i shouldnt be ashamed, but recently i have been masturbating 3 or 4 times a day if i have the time.
Is this normal?
Are there any other house hold objects that can get you feeling happy?
other than the shower head, the electric toothbrush and your own finger?
and all my friends are getting quite far with guys, i have a lot of interest, but i cant seem to let myself go. i cant seem to let a guy touch me,
it's nothing wierd is it?
lots of questions... |
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Juanjohnguy
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| Posted: 01/15/08 - 20:13 Post subject: response |
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to answer the masterbating 3 to 4 times a day.....it should be normal.....I've never known someone that masterbated that much, but it shouldn't like be harmful to your health.....actually I suggest that you don't so much, and that you wait a week or at least wait for a while and then masterbate again, because from what I've seen (and experianced) masterbation is better when you wait a little and then masterbate
to answer the other things that make you "feel happy" .....is you are still a virgin then couldn't you use like a hand massager or something like that, or I've somtimes even heard or some girls using the vibration from their phone to masterbate off of......and if you are not a virgin then use a cucumber, or banana, or if you can take it then use your phone and insert it into halfway then activate the vibration so that it vibrates while the phone is in....
and to answer your last question.....of course its nothing weird, the thing is you have to becareful wen having sex, cause a lot of girls end up getting addicted to sex just because of how good the pleasure feels.....besides in my opinion its a little too early to start thinking about getting your cherry popped.....in other words, its a good thing that you haven't let guys get too far with you because most of the guys of today only want to be with a girl just because after sometime being with her, they know that she is going to get to the point where they are finally going to have sex, if you keep your abstinence then you will definetely find a guy that likes you for who you are, and not only for the sex... |
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| Posted: 01/15/08 - 23:03 Post subject: |
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Yep, that's totally normal! Especially for your age. Hormones are raging and that makes you more turned on more of the time. The only time when masturbating can be done TOO much is if it interferes with your life (like you masturbate when you should be working or going to school)... or if it begins to be painful because you're rubbing yourself too much.
Similar to the shower head, if you have a tub the faucet can be great. Just take a bath and put your clit under where the water comes down. You can control the pressure and temp and just lay back. You could use vegetables in the shape of a penis, make sure they aren't too big though. And also... it would be wise to cover whatever you use with a condom because you don't know if it's clean or not.
As far as doing things with guys, if you aren't ready yet then dont stress it. Eventually you'll realize you're curious and then you can feel free to go there  |
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