Embarrassed because of sebaceous prominence!

Hello. I'm 23 year old female and I'm really worried about one thing. Just recently I have noticed that my boyfriend has some small bumps all over his penis and testicles.
They can't be spotted if penis isn’t erected. Beside the fact that it looks really ugly I'm starting to think that it could be a sign of some sexually transmitted disease.
Of course, he denies all that and refuses to contact any doctor over this. He told me also that ha has these bumps all this life and that they are called sebaceous prominences. Could he telling me the truth?
How could I be sure?

Hi. I see that you are frightened about all this and I will try to explain you some things. You see, there is great chance that your boyfriend has really telling you the truth.
This sebaceous prominence problem is very common among men and someone told me that almost all men suffer from it, just more or less expressed.
Many men are worried about these symptoms but afraid to go and visit their doctor. I don’t know why? There is nothing to shamed of.
Usually, these small sebaceous glands require no treatment what so ever. If you try to squeeze them- you could only make things worse. Ignore them because they will cause you no discomfort!

caulfield wrote:

Hello. I'm 23 year old female and I'm really worried about one thing. Just recently I have noticed that my boyfriend has some small bumps all over his penis and testicles. They can't be spotted if penis isn’t erected. Beside the fact that it looks really ugly I'm starting to think that it could be a sign of some sexually transmitted disease. Of course, he denies all that and refuses to contact any doctor over this. He told me also that ha has these bumps all this life and that they are called sebaceous prominences. Could he telling me the truth? How could I be sure?

Unfortunately most chicks i've dated are like you, and they run away at first signs of what is actually a normal male condition. shame.

hi im a normall 14 year old boy nd i have wat your boyfriend has nearly ever boy has them nd from wat i heard from your description they seem to be it they are completly normall and uncontagious dw bout them

"It's a normal condition, there is nothing to be shamed of." Nothing to be shamed of my *ss. I have them, nearly covering my entire penis. It's seriously bothering me, I don't want to show my penis to anybody. It looks horrible, and I don't feel any better when reading these topics about SP. They're all worried about a pimple or two, I have by now met only one person here at steadyhealth who I think has the same size of a problem that I do. People are just yelling and crying about their one little, barely noticeable pimple, but they haven't seen a real problem yet. There is no way a girl would not notice the pimples when for example giving me oral sex, unless it happened in a dark room. And i think no one would take that mutant dick in their mouth. It doesn't look so delicious. It looks awful. As you can see, I am really depressed with my SP, and worried it could ruin my sexlife. I don't have any experience of it yet, i'm 15. I have a constant fear that if I had sex, I would be called by names or people would think I have an STD. May sound odd to you, but SP causes me all this. AND THE MOST DEPRESSING THING IS THAT EVERYWHERE ON THE INTERNET READS THE SAME THING - THEY JUST CANT BE CURED! THEY CANNOT BE CURED! So, it seems i have a wonderful life coming up. And yes, I know there is other things than sex in life. SOMEONE INVENT A CURE NOW!!! I MEAN C'MON IT'S JUST SKIN!!! THERE ARE CURES FOR SKIN PROBLEMS! WHY THE **** NOT FOR THIS?????

Sorry about yelling and writing a such long message, but I really hope you read it and understand me. PLZ REPLY!

hey i have almost the same thin gyou do and im depressed about it to it sucks so f@#$^&* bad man i hate myself for it ! i wish they would go away thier little flesh colored bumps up and down my penile shaft and were my head connects to the shaft i know girls will notice them and im about to be 16 i can tell my lifes gonna suck to but when i get older imma go to a doctor and have them put a lazer to it and see if that works if it doesnt oh well atleast ive trid and ive had 2 partners already who knew about my prablem i told them about it and thay show no symptoms of it wich means my cas isnt contratible by oral or real sex.... and that was 2 years ago and they still havent showed any symptoms of it ! i just wish that these things would go away i mean i have the wors time finding a partner because of course i have to tell them about my prablem before i have sex and they of course get freaked the f**k out about it im in a serious relationship right now and im scared shitless about telling her about it because i know she will most likely leave me...