Erection problems, thinning semen, new girlfriend

I'm a 21 year old male and have masturbated about 4-10 times a week since I was 14.

About 5 months ago, I got a new girlfriend and I felt inclined to quit watching pornography and masturbating altogether, as a moral decision.

Frequently though, I began again just to see how things were, and it's not great. Upon ejaculation I got odorless, transparent, watery semen and afterwards, my penis swelled until I went to sleep and when I awoke it was back to normal. (Before, I would have thick, sticky semen, and my penis would not swell... or at least not to a noticeable swell like THIS.)

During foreplay with my girlfriend (which we just foreplay, we are not to sex) I have a difficult time keeping an erection, although I want to, and it will even go limp during oral sex. We even TRIED to have sex, and I kept getting limp and we couldnt. However, I had to go to the bathroom (bowel movement)

So what I'm asking is:

1) Should I be worried about the watery semen?
2) Is the penis swelling after masturbation bad? It never happened before
3) When I have to crap, I dont go at her house. I hold it, sometimes to pain, and I think it affects my erections
4) Am I dying?
5) Thanks for all answers and help!

We have been tricked in this society to think we can masturbate all we want without any consequences. Actually it is very dangerous for our health. I don't believe all the current pseudo-doctors who say it is not dangerous.


**edited by moderator**

hello,

impotence, according to the hindu tantra, occurs when there is imbalance in one of the 5 elements: air. however since all 5 are inter-related, this means there is a general imbalance concerning all five of them but strongly related to air.

there is a balance and harmony in the 5 airs (read: directions of pressure) in the body and this enables one to have feelings, perform sex, evacuate, digest food etc. when an imbalance occurs one or the other of the activities gets disrupted. since the natural flow of air has changed direction, instead of leading to an erection, your pressure has moved on to affect your bowel movement. sometimes, people with sudden loss of sexual desire/ erection notice that they want to pass air or that there is pain in the upper back or chest. others get stomach cramps and want to evacuate. these are tell-tale signs of the needed pressure abandoning the reproductive system and moving towards other directions.

this disruption of internal pressure balance in men is largely due to the easing of the ego. ego is the will-pressure that controls emotions and maintains the regular the flow of pressure towards the genitals. when the control of the ego gets lax, men are not able to get as easily aroused or can't get/maintain erection. the pressure gets eased too and can no longer be centred on the sex organ.

of remedies: i am sorry but i am unable to prescribe the yogic remedies for you. all of you live in the mundane world and probably should seek the help of the allopathic doctor. alternately, people like Ramdev can help. search around... best of luck...