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marks · Newbie Joined: 09 Apr 2006 Posts: 3

1st of all, my problem may seem very weird though i need urgent help.
its one of my endless tensions about sexlife.
4rm my childhood i fantasized 2 be dominated by mature women.
at early i masturbuted by watchin normal 3x movies.
but when i saw many sites about female domination i liked them. then i slowly became
addicted 2 see these type of themes such as : women worship, serving women etc.
4rm past 3 years i m masterbutin by watchin these type of pics,stories etc.
but now i think i dont feel any erection by fantasizin about normal sex life or watchin
normal naked pics. i never had sex.i can't lose my self-respect or manhood
by doin these not even 2 by wife. i want 2 have normal sexlife? but i fear
that if i dont get any erection by doin normal.

so pls help me how i can get rid of this? have i lost my manhood?

Lori · Veteran Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 511

Once I met this guy online who had a nick nick_SM. I though this was a sign for a town he lived in but it turned out he is into SADOMAZO.
I met him once although I wasn’t sexually active at the time and definitely wasn’t into SM.
HE was very eager to talk about this although I made it clear I didn’t want any sex but I think it was really helpful talking about it because he had no one to talk about this and of course he had no sex.
He said his friends don’t know and the last time he did it was two years ago.
I asked him, what about normal sex and he told me he does it but that it didn’t turned him on like that. He enjoyed when I woman was really cruel to him and he also said that it didn’t even have to come to sex as long as a woman was really mean to him.
I remember when he told me one of his stories……he met a girl online…who was into domination and she invited him to his place. When he entered, the first thing she did ……she made him wash the dishes…..that was cool to him and then she spanked him.

I didn’t find this weird……how do you feel about this?

Maybe you will feel differently when a woman/girl actually approached you or touched you…..or…..something else.
I am not sure how you can fight this, only by suppressing your thoughts maybe and trying to get it up by watching normal porn…….

I just wanted to tell you that you are certainly not alone in this and I hope you will manage to fight this if you think it’s not right.

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