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Sensui
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 Posted: 06/12/06 - 00:22 Post subject: First Time Sex Problem |
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| Me (17) and My Girlfriend (17) had sex for the first time yesterday and i used a condom and after i ejactulated with the first condom i switched to another one and continued to have sex but my girlfriend told me that the condom was sliding a bit and she is worried that she might get pregant from the condom moving i was trying to make her less worried telling her that i would take her to plan parent hood but she doesn't want to. She is just worried about cum getting on the other condom when i switched or if the cum came out when it was sliding is there a possibled that she could get pregant because i'm worried to as well and i don't want her to be pregant cause she has her whole life ahead of her. So is there a possibled that she could get pregant? |
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peachybum
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| Posted: 06/12/06 - 02:09 Post subject: condoms |
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What a nice sensitive man you sound like, and your first time sexual experience is always going to come with concerns, you did the right thing using condoms.
The semen (cum) always goes into that little bit at the bottom of the condom, and if you roll it down carefully it remains there. I would think you both very unlucky if your girlfriend was pregnant, probably very unlikely. It might be a good idea to use a vaginal spermacide as well as a condom. Maybe get on the telephone and ring a pharmacist/chemist to see if you need a prescription. Or maybe have a talk with your girlfriend to see if she would like to go onto contraception as well. |
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Sensui
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| Posted: 06/12/06 - 06:54 Post subject: Post-Cum |
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| Thank you that was very helpful and took a bit or worry off but i noticed that there was post-cum at the bottom of the condom at the time and so did my girlfriend thats her main concern because she thought that it came out from the sliding? Is that also a possiblity that she could get pregant? |
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peachybum
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| Posted: 06/12/06 - 17:02 Post subject: post cum |
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| I think it would be virtually impossible to remove a penis from a condom, without removing some sperm, your penis with the sexual action, naturally would be touching the sperm, but l still would imagine that it would be really hard to get her pregnant that way, you originally said you put on another condom and had more sex, well you were protected!! I would imagine you both are fine. Go with the spermacide next time. You could buy a pregnancy test , but this will only indicate if she is pregnant after she has missed her first period. I really think that the chances of her being pregnant are extremely minute!! |
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| Posted: 06/13/06 - 18:46 Post subject: |
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| thank you so much and next time i will go with the condoms with spermacide so i'm not as worried and her either peachybum your a good and helpful person thanks a lot |
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| Posted: 06/13/06 - 22:37 Post subject: First time sex problem |
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Your very welcome  and thank you very much for the compliment, l appreaciate it. Not ever nice to be worried, and hey its often easier to discuss things with a stranger . Have a nice day  |
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