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First Time and I didn't have an erection

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PostPosted: 02/13/07 - 01:22    Post subject: First Time and I didn't have an erection Vote now! Reply with quote

I was about to have sex last night for my first time and the reason why I didn't, and couldn't was because I couldn't get an errection. I am pretty sure this was because I was fairly nervous so I am posting to find out if I am correct and what I can do next time?
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PostPosted: 04/08/07 - 19:19    Post subject: Re: First Time and I didn't have an erection Vote now! Reply with quote

Sareon wrote:
I was about to have sex last night for my first time and the reason why I didn't, and couldn't was because I couldn't get an errection. I am pretty sure this was because I was fairly nervous so I am posting to find out if I am correct and what I can do next time?


Thats shit sucks man, that same exact thing happend to me a few weeks ago once i finally got a chance to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time...I was embarassed...lol. if you find anything out let me know...save my sex life!! lol
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PostPosted: 12/16/07 - 10:13    Post subject: first time no erection Vote now! Reply with quote

i just tried to have sex with my girlfriend....tried. i thought: it was kinna cold and she wasn't really doing anything...on the other hand, come on! i got really pissed off. then, yesterday, we tried again, warm, she was doing most of the work, yet still nothing...got up. i really think it's that i'm afraid that she'll be dissapointed or something. coz i don't really have experience and so forth... but i'm gonna work on my confidence and hope that next time it works.

also, i have a friend that tried for a whole week every day, and only after that week did he succed. i haven't had the opportunity 2 talk 2 him, but after i will i will post back.
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PostPosted: 12/17/07 - 04:39    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

For the guys about to have sex for the first time, make sure you find out as much as you can about it first. That should make you feel more confident when having sex. Make sure you don't think of the cons when about to have sex as well. That will get you very nervous, just honestly give it your all. Maybe talk to her about what she likes, and what you like before starting? Hope this helped.
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PostPosted: 12/18/07 - 20:56    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

Well, I think I can give some advice.
My first time this almost happened but with the help of my girl friend; and some patience it was fine. Here are the two possibility's I've encountered.

1. Your REALLY nervous. It's your first time, or with that girl. Regardless just try to calm down, and envision having sex. Within good time you will be hard.

2. You recently had sex ( which obviously isn't it for you ) or masturbated. It again is possible to get through, but patience is required
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