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 Posted: 11/30/07 - 05:22 Post subject: Foreskin Woes, Issues of Sex and possible circumcision. |
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I'm 26 and a virgin. Yeah, think what you want of that. Further more I am uncircumcised and would like to stay that way.
One of the more physical aspects of my body contributing to the neurosis that maintain my virginity is my foreskin. See, during an erection it won't retract fully and only moves about a third of the way down my glans.
Phimosis I think this is called?
I find I can masturbate easily without having to retract it at all.
I can also retract it easily when my penis is flaccid however, to clean behind it etc.
But my foreskin is longer than average, so I am left wondering if it's not a case of it being too tight, but rather there being a lot more to retract?
I would like to eventually try sex [before 30 please for crying out loud]. Especially as more recently my social life is improving and women actually pay me attention.
However, it's gotten to the point where several [not all at once, though I wish] have wanted to either go back to mine or take me back to their place if you know what I mean and the issue of my problem is always at the forefront of my mind. This results in me making excuses and missing out on potential sex.
My GP told me that my tight foreskin could only be fixed through circumcision and that steroid creams wouldn't work. He also told me that sex is possible without having to retract the foreskin.
Also that you could have sex with an unretracted foreskin whilst wearing a condom.
This isn't really a comfort though. What happens if your partner wants to go down on you and give you oral sex? A mouth full of foreskin isn't a nice thing to present, but surely there are alternatives to getting circumcised?
I don't want to lose the sensitivity and the prospect of having a glans as tough as shoe leather doesn't appeal to me.
As a side note, when I spoke to my GP, this was an 8.30 appointment on a Friday, in an NHS centre and he didn't bother to look at my dick.
I am left confused and scared about having sex now knowing that I have to get mutilated to go about it.
Thus, I am seeing a proper urologist - however I am wondering if they'll say the same thing?
Can't I just get the extra bit of foreskin that covers the metus of my glans as if to form a little spout shortened?
My GP went as far as to say that everyone is different which sort of contradicted his evaluation. Is circumcision truly the only option?
If everyone is different why couldn't he just have a look. That's his job isn't it?
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