Found the one for me,but cant get it up?

Ive been single for a few years now.So i been playing the field. I am 31 and in alright shape. I could lose about 20 pounds. Ive been having sex with many women the last few years and stamina and getting arroused is not the problem. I found the woman of my dreams and the sex at first was amazing. I began deleting numbers from my phone cause I want her to be my girlfriend. The last 3 weekends I tried to have sex with her and well The sail didnt get up the last two weekends and the latter being an erection not that hard. She is beautiful and I connect with her at all levels.

So i called one of my other friends and well sex was normal and rock hard. I dont understand. The one woman I am in love with I cannot perform?

She is so beautiful and so good. I used to have great sex with her but now im failing.
What can i do? Is it anxiety? I used to rock her world, now i feel like a loser.

I think that you're psyching yourself out, which is why you're soft and you'll continue to be soft if you don't cope with that soon. Try to get as comfortable as you can with this girl or else you probably will continue to have that issue. Does that sound plausible?