Getting Frustrated About Love Making

gieske · Silver Member Joined: 23 Dec 1999 Posts: 235

Hello. I'm 21 year old female and I'm having some questions about sex and orgasms.
You see, I have early started with masturbation.
I think I was 13 or 14 and I really enjoyed pleasuring my self all those years. Like I already said, I'm now 21 and about a year now I'm having sex with one guy who is really nice to me and really good in bed. But there is one problem- I can't orgasm at all!!!
I was so frustrated with sex that I began to dislike it.
Please tell me what I could do. Is there any connection between masturbation and not be able to orgasm. I'm still young and I would like to hear that I have maybe caused some irreversible damage to my self.

freeman · Newbie Joined: 23 May 2005 Posts: 25

Hello. I have just read your post and I can only imagine how terrible and frustrated you must be feeling right now.
I will tell you some of my experiences on this field. I have also started early with masturbation and not only that- I have started with vibrators from the beginning.
After, when I started enjoying my sex life I found my self having some serious problems with not be able to have an orgasm.
I was very worried and I contacted my gynecologist immediately who told me that this is very common problem because using vibrators directly on my clitoris made my clit go numb. He told me that I should just normal, vaginal sex, for a while and everything will come back to normal.

Getting Frustrated About Love Making

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