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Clueless_92
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 Posted: 04/19/08 - 22:20 Post subject: Getting with a lad, beginning to turn serious, in aid of adv |
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| i am getting close with a lad and i truly love him, we kiss and that but i am scared to take the relationship further but dont wana loose him, part of me is ready for it but part of me is still scared. would like some advice on what i should do incase i make a wrong decision!! |
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bbfeet9
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Listen hon, don't use sex to hold on to this guy. Not that i'm saying this is what your gonna do, but if really loves you, he will stay around, with or without sex.
How old are you anyway?
I also suggest that before you guys decide to take your relationship to the next level, you get on some kind of birth control.
Not knowing this guy or who he has been with, insist that he wear a condom.
Only you can decide if your ready.
Does he pressure you?
Does he say things like, if we don't do it i'm outta here?
Listen to your heart. Tho sometimes your heart tells you one thing, and your head is telling you something else. This is something you gotta figure out hon, but make sure your doing it for the right reason. |
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