HELP Problems inserting Penius

Stealth · Newbie Joined: 20 Jul 2007 Posts: 2

Hello, my girl friend and I have been going out for about 8 months now and have recently started getting sexual with our relationship. Now I am not a virgin but she is. We have maid at least 4 attempts. Every time we try to enhance this experience with a-lot of lube and better communication. Every time has been a massive failure. I have gotten 1 of my fingers in there however she did not get any pleasure from it and I had to use a condom on that finger because she said my nail hurt her. When my finger was in there it felt like someone was grabbing my finger and squeezing it as hard as they can, I asked her if she was doing that and she said "no not on purpose" . She felt pain from the finger as anything else I have tried to put in there. She tells me the pain feels like somebody is taking sand paper and rubbing it around in her. I do not know what to do, I don't want to make anymore attempts until I know for sure she will not be in such pain because I honestly cant bare to put her through that anymore. If anyone has any information to help out I would greatly appreciate it.

P.S. She also complained that the lubrication burned her, she also cannot use scented soaps or lotions.

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ok i feel very bad for u my man does the samething but his finger is very smooth and i tell him to watch his nail but it shouldn't hurt her after awhile or anything like that we do it all the time and it hurts when he goes farther in then useally but i get used to it after a little while so she should be good

LDelgado1986 · Newbie Joined: 06 Jun 2008 Posts: 10

Yea I just recently lost my virginity like not even 2 days ago and never had ANYTHING inside me. My bf had to start with one finger and when he had tried his second finger I flipped out cause it hurt ALOT. He kept going though and started slowly. The lube is going to burn no matter what I think so at least. I used the KY warming lubrication and it hurt at first but it was worth it. Honestly you got to go really slow my bf was going in like barely a inch every time and he wasn't pumping it he was just pressing in more and more until I would say ow then he would stop and stay there until I was ready. You just have to take your time.My bf had to FORCE me to relax when we started to have sex, he pushed my legs up like onto his shoulder and I couldn't tense up and squeeze his hips with my thighs. Believe me once she gets over that tenseness she'll be veeeery happy. I am glad my bf did it the way he did it and I don't regret it it was a very good experience so as long as you just push in until your fully into her before you pump and pump slowly she won't be in alot of pain. This coming from someone who couldn't relax because I read up on here bout first times and girls kept saying it hurt soooo much and it didn't hurt nearly as bad as they put it out to be.

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