HELP! Faithful and married with an STD?

babs · Newbie Joined: 05 Aug 2006 Posts: 1

I think I might have an STD. But I am a faithful wife who has a feeling my husband is having affairs. Is there a way to prove(tests?) who contracted an STD first? If we both have it, how could I prove I got it from him? He would likely blame me to cover up for himself. Please help!

Lori · Veteran Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 523

He can’t lame you if you are innocent, all you have to do is take the right attitude meaning I know I don’t full around, so it leaves just one suspect-YOU and you should stick to it. How on Earth can he blame you when you know you haven’t done anything?

But before you make any accusations, you should see a gynecologist and make sure you really do have an STD. You didn’t name of your symptoms, so it really hard to relate and tell more. If you have developed some strange growths, then it is highly likely that you have an std. if you suffer from excessive discharge…well, it could be normal, it could be from and STD and it could be yeast infection (which is not considered an STD since you can get it from antibiotic use or condom ingredients).
If you have redness, itching, swelling and the discharge, it is usually yeast infection.
If you have just discharge and/or other accompanying symptoms, it could be STD.
If you have burning in the pelvic region, frequent urge to urinate, dribbling of urine, it could be normal UTI.

So, see a doc first until you make any conclusions.

Unfortunately, there is no way to say who got it first but you know you didn’t, so …….

HELP! Faithful and married with an STD?

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