HELP! unwanted sexual thoughts.

Color of Paper · Newbie Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 23

Hi I need some help and I really dont know where to go. I've tryed talking to my psy about this and the conversation seems to go around in circles. My last relatinoship was a very intesnse one. I moved in with a women i feel in love with after 3 months. She had a 6 year old daughter. I was 23 and she was 25. We lived together for a year, then I had to move on. Over the course of our relationship I would go to shows with her to see all her favorite bands. Later on I stumbled across some emails, and I really did stumble across them...they were left open on the computer screen. I didnt even touch the mouse or keboard becuase I though that was wrong. There was no way for me to look away from the screen though becuase of the things i saw. This guy that we always hung out with saiid some very very graphic stuff that I never though anyone would say to another. Over time I learned that this girl that I was living with had slept with most of the band memebers we went and saw on a regualr bassis. Now im the type of person who thinks sex is a very important and sacred thing. I'm having a very hard time finding someone who hasnt been permiscous(sp) and slept with a ton of people. It really bothers me and it seems like everyone is a whore. WTF is my problem

Color of Paper · Newbie Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 23

no one?

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It sounds like a lot of your feelings of thinking everyone else is a whore really came about because of this situation. You must feel very let down and almost tricked to find out a whole different side of this girl that you had no idea about. The fact is, that maybe you do want a "good girl" who hasn't been around the block, and this isn't wrong. It just may take you a little longer to find that right person for you. A lot of guys could care less if a girl has been with 1 or 50 guys, and there are few guys that actually do believe sex is something sacred and shouldn't be shared with every guy a girl comes into contact with. Keep your expectations, if you want a person who believes sex is something sacred and hasn't had many partners, than stick with that.

People · Newbie Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 17

Problem for you. There isn't one at all. But whores there are a billion and it's beacuse kids are having sex so young, and it's hard not to. But there is a person out there. Don't worry. Your just looking in the wrong places. I promise.

sayeri · Newbie Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 2

ya ur going ri8 i was also a virgin till i met my virgin love , nd we r very faithfull 2 eachother.
i also think that everybody shuld have one partner the one they love truely

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