HOW DO I MAKE MY PARENTS NOT FIND OUT IF I LOOSE IT?

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OMG IM 12 AND MY BOYFRIEND IS 13. EVERYONE SAYS WE ARE YOUNGE, AND THEY SAY WE DONT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS. BUT WE REALLY DO KN0W WHAT IT IS N0W. WE B0TH ARE VIRGINS AND WE WANNA LOOSE IT T0 EAC0THER I AM IN THE 7TH GRADE AND HE IS IN THE 8TH GRADE. IM REALLY SCARED OF GETTING PREGENAT OR BLEEDING OR MY PARENTS FINDING OUT CAN YOU PLEASE HELP!!! I NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE! THAT WILL UNDERSTAND ME AND NOT SAY IM T00 YOUNGE! I REALLY DONT WANT TO RAISE A CHILD RIGHT NOW SO PLEASE HELP! AND HE TOLD ME HE WILL WAIT FOR ME UNTILL IM READY!

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i know this is not what you want to here and its not because you are nto old enough to realise what love is. but sex is not a choice made for juiveniles.you may live to regret this one day and realise that you werent EXPERIENCED enough to make a well informed decision.you have failed to write in how long you have been together as well and its a large contributing factor sooo my response and advice is too wait until you know for sure that you are 100% ready for this and test the water of your relationship a bit more however if you do go ahead and do the deed make sure you participate in safe sex. If possible with two forms of protection.

phantom240 · Supporter Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 142

You're 12 years old. Sex is not something that you should be concerned about at that age. You're way too young and immature to handle the responsibilities and possible consequences of having sex. Yes, I said immature. I don't mean to be harsh, but its the cold hard truth. And if you have sex, your parents shouldn't really be able to find out. Its not like they inspect your *ahem* private areas. If he will wait until you're ready, then make him wait. You guys can practice other types of sex other than vaginal intercourse. Hell, I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 17, and she doesn't want to have kids til she's out of college, so we agreed not to have vaginal intercourse, but rather oral sex and anal sex until then. Sure, I want to have vaginal intercourse, but the possible consequences of having that kind of sex are too great for us to risk at this point in our lives.

bbfeet9 · Posted: 06/09/08 - 18:29 Post subject:

The posts that you have read prior to this are all correct for sure.
So i won't read you the riot act. The first thing you need to know is that you need protection. This act is going to happen with or with out our advice. In that case, get in the right place before you do this.
You must get on some kind of birth control to start. Go to Planned Parenthood, talk to them about your intentions. They may try to sway your ideas (which they are right) but they will also make sure that if this is your intent, they will get you started with protection.
Bf needs to wear a condom, no excuses.

I can't resist this but my grandson is 12. He plays outside and has just, and i mean just realizes that there is an opposite sex. He is shy around girls and i just can't imagine him having sex.
Do you really want to start up a reputation at this age? I'm sorry honey, but when a little boy makes it all the way to home plate with his gf, don't you think that he will talk? The type of affection that you have for each other is wonderful, but it will go away. Your 12, geez. Can you imagine getting pregnant? Your child will be starting Kindergarten before you even graduate from high school.

Okay, i'm sorry, but the mother came rushing out of me. Please stop and think about this and think about it hard. If he says he will wait until your ready, make him wait for a long time, and if he doesn't, oh well.

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