HOW TO LOSE VIRGINITY

meier · Silver Member Joined: 08 Feb 2001 Posts: 274

I had sex for the first time a few days ago, and I am 17 years old girl. I would like to hear is not girl supposed to bleed after having sex. I am asking this because when I had sex I was tight, but I did not have any bleeding. Now I am very confused, so I would like to hear if someone could explain this. Can you tell me how to lose virginity, since I think I did not succeed for the first time?

hilgert · Newbie Joined: 10 Apr 2005 Posts: 19

The hymen is that flap of fleshy membrane that covers a vagina. Hymen does not usually cover the entire vaginal opening, as many people think. It grows out of the perineum region and extends upward, leaving a small opening. The small opening is necessary because without it a woman’s monthly menstrual flow would have no place to exit the womb. Unfortunately, nature itself overlooks this fact from time to time, leading to a need for surgical intervention. Literally it is needed cutting an opening into the fused flesh of the faulty or imperforate hymen. Without surgery, the clotted blood builds up in the woman’s uterus and vagina, eventually leading to pain, swelling, infection, and death. People believe that virgins all have a thick, relatively inflexible hymen covering almost the entire vaginal opening. That is why they expect that the first time a woman has a penis inside her, her hymen should tear or pop with blood. However, this just is not necessary to happen, and many women experience nothing more than a slight sensation of burning or stinging. That is why I have to say you should not be asking how to lose virginity, because you have already done this, although there was no bleeding.

XjessicaX · Newbie Joined: 17 Nov 2006 Posts: 17

yes. it is concidered sex because the penis went into the vagina.

pouts · Silver Member Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 158

losing your virginity does not mean you have to bleed, you lose it as soon as a penis enters the vagina, the first time i did it i didnt bleed either, sometimes by the time you have sex your hymen has already broken from things like doing a lot of sports or even horseback riding

Guest · Guest

I was with a guy but he wasn't in me, we did have sex (you can have sex in all other ways aswell, it doesn't have to be intercource) I lost my hymen that day. We didn't do it by sexual intercource, he did it with his fingers because I was nervous about how much it would hurt. I was very very turned on and when he entered his fingers in me, I felt the most intense pain I have ever felt in my life. It didn't bleed but I'm happy he didn't do it with his penis as it would have hurt A LOT more. We all have to remember a penis is bigger than a finger. There is no doubt that my hymen is not there anymore as I can poke my fingers all the way in, I couldn't before.

If anyone are scared to lose their hymen, then you could do like me and the guy, and let the guy do it gently with their finger(s) it helped me out so when I am going to have sex it might hurt the first few times but not the same as it would have if I had still had the hymen.

Guest · Guest

my ex boyfriend fingered me.we never had sex thus, and i was never bleeding. am i still a virgin or no?am i going to bleed when i have actual sex?does the guy feel that pop of hymen you were mentioning above or just the woman?
somebody told me that hymen is actually layered?#
thank you.

x3 · Newbie Joined: 18 Dec 2007 Posts: 21

mm i didnt bleed AT ALL either.. =/ so idk ;im kinda confused myself.

Guest · Guest

You know it could be done surgically so you dont feel the pain 1st time you have intercourse, i am a guy so wouldnt know myself but people say that removing it surgically with a pain killer, is not felt at all, and 2st time you actually have intercourse with a guy, it is as if tho you never were a virgin...i know weird way to explain myself... if i helped, write me saying that

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