Having problems giving my g/f an orgasm

jamesbond1223 · Newbie Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 18

my g/f and i have had sex before i have had a orgasm but i asked her if she had an orgasm and she said no well she never had one before and i can see she didn't have an orgasm i am wondering if i might be doing somethink wrong i don't take 2 long to ""CUM"" when i am haveing sex with her proberly 10mins i guess i really wan ot give her an orgasm could some plz tell me wht i can do
i heard that women take longer to get an orgasm than men i was wondering how much longer it takes like an average time how much longer

helpisontheway · Veteran Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 762 Location: England

it takes the average woman 20 minutes to climax.

There's nothing wrong with you: read on! >>>

Unlike the myths and stories in porno: Porn is only a film, Many women are unable to acheive vaginal orgasm, if they do: a woman won't have a vaginal orgasm from sex alone until they are well into their late 20's. (because Women reach their sexual peak in their 30's. Men reach theirs aged 18!)

You'll most probably only get one from clitoral stimulation - a clitoral orgasm - in which case extra fingering or oral stimulation is required, not just sex.

Only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse owing to the fact that the size and location of the clitoris mean that it often does not receive sufficient stimulation from intercourse alone!

It's a sad truth I am afraid, but nothing is wrong with you, you need to do a little extra oral or fingering in between sex to keep her going.

It doesn't mean sex isn't satisfying for her! Sex can be incredibly good nonetheless. Women will still enjoy it nevertheless.

jamesbond1223 · Newbie Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 18

thkz alot i have had sex with other girl before and well it seem to me she had a pretty good orgasm and she was younger than my present girlfriend that was a year back

any was thkz for the info still feel slight bad tht i am enjoying my self when she not really enjoying it that much i have done oral to her and finger, i guess i gotta do it more

she does have a slight problem with dryness also but the condoms i use do have alot lubricant on them

helpisontheway · Veteran Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 762 Location: England

don't feel bad, unlike men, sex can still be extremely satisfying for a woman even without orgasm. Just spend more time on keeping her aroused between intercourse, with particular attention to the clitoris.

Having problems giving my g/f an orgasm

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