Help I Can't Stop Masturbating

laughner · Silver Member Joined: 12 Jul 2002 Posts: 306

First time I experienced masturbating I was around twelve years old. I found it really nice and exciting and I started to do it even few times a day. I know that is something people do not talk about but I feel like this is not normal. I wonder if someone could help me. I cannot stop masturbating and that worries me, and by the way, I am still a virgin.

Ready_Lube · Silver Member Joined: 11 Apr 2006 Posts: 215 Location: AZ

perfectly normal. Don't be alarmed by it, enjoy it! You will meet someone soon enough and in the mean time use a good lube Wink

Elmo01 · Newbie Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 4

I masturbate alot too - i tend to vary it - based on my life - at times i will have multiple sesions, and climax multiple times - i can maturbate for about 10 minutes - up till probly 4 hours (yes - i have studied how to do it)

i have had merely 2 partners (both still friends) so masturbating really helps me learn to last until the other is satisfied. depending on experiance (i see your a virgin) masturbation will become less meaningfull as you learn to love more then just pleasureing yourself.

Elmo01 · Newbie Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 4

Masturbating isnt "bad" for your health. but the spots you see - are not a "problem" it can be due to pressure (too much) or friction (please use a lubricant)

health wise - masturbating releases hormones which if used to often can cause you to be jittery, fatigued and excessivly parionoid. most compare the side efects to scizophrania and depression - -

but the thing is - this happens if you masturbate almost every hour or so (up to 12 times a day)

dont be too worried.

cuckoohead · Newbie Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 85 Location: Boston,M.A.

thats a lie.Masturbation does not cause none of this.Masturbation is anormal habit and it is natural.Thats like saying I'm going to go crazy from eating a sandwhich.The only side effect is that it can be sore.But if u rub any body part as fast and hard than that would be sore too.Ejaculating a lot helps secure the chances that ur not going to get prostate cancer

badAssJack · Newbie Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 22

well im not into scientific things but a while ago if i used like umm shampoo my penis like..............scratch that......... masterbating is fun thats all their is too it it can have some side effects but that doesnt matter cause they arent doing ne thing..................

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I've been looking at this question a lot lately. In my opinion, several times a day at your age is perfectly normal. The issue is present in your mid to late 20's. If you're still have multiple sessions per day, every day, it may be time to ask yourself some questions. Biologically speaking, there is absolutely no harm done. That's why so many people say "go ahead, enjoy!" which in and of itself is totally true, there are no adverse effects, and nothing in the bible, and nothing to be ashamed about. However there is an issue if the masturbation is used as a form of psychological compensation which in turn becomes habit and then addiction. This certainly doesn't happen to everyone but it does happen to some. And a pornography addiction goes right along with this. Two of the most common reasons are boredom and fear of intimacy. So the question is, do you masturbate several times a day purely as a release from boredom because you're stuck in the house all the time and is the reason you're stuck in the house all the time because you don't go out and meet and talk to other people, and girls. Then masturbation becomes an issue as a symptom or coping mechanism sheilding one from human contact. further in that case, the older you become, the harder it is find enjoyment from intercourse. In these cases, which are NOT common, but do happen, in those cases pornography and masturbation are safe, no rejection, no messy relationship issues, no hassle just pure safe fantasy but at the expense of being a recluse.

Again, masturbation is perfectly normal. However if you find the sessions increase over 3 times a day (arbitrary number) everyday, for weeks, months or years on end, to the exclusion of regular relationships, might wanna think about cutting back and addressing the unlying issues which may very well be boredom or intimacy fears.

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Seriously? Masturbation is a healthy release of tension and stress. There's no god in the sky watching what you do, you're not going to go blind, grow hair on your palms, or go insane from having too many orgasms. It simply is not possible. The worst thing that could happen is that if you're masturbating frequently, you could get a bit sore from too much friction. Silicone lube is your best friend.

There's nothing wrong with having a lot of sex - aside from muscle fatigue, occasional chapping, or dehydration from sweating a lot. Seriously.

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i love it,cant get enough,love yourself senseless

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