Help I Can't Stop Masturbating

laughner · Silver Member Joined: 12 Jul 2002 Posts: 306

First time I experienced masturbating I was around twelve years old. I found it really nice and exciting and I started to do it even few times a day. I know that is something people do not talk about but I feel like this is not normal. I wonder if someone could help me. I cannot stop masturbating and that worries me, and by the way, I am still a virgin.

osier · Newbie Joined: 30 Jun 2005 Posts: 21

First, I want to say that I really admire you for being able to ask anyone for advice or help. I understand that can be very, very difficult thing to do and it takes a lot of courage. I have to say what you are feeling, about wanting to have sex, is natural. This is caused by hormones, and it is something your body direct. I also want to say that I think it is wonderful that you are still a virgin, and that you are responsible enough to realize that sex becomes very emotional once you have it. I hope you would not be too much disappointed, but I do not really have any suggestions on what might help you to stop masturbating. Maybe the only way is to concentrate very hard on something else and remind yourself every time that you get the urge that you it makes you feel gross sometimes. I want to say that there is nothing wrong with you if you like to masturbate because that is natural. You are not alone in this, I am sure there are many people doing this, maybe even more then you do. The point is nobody wants to talk about it, so it can gave you feeling like there is something wrong with you.

slipaway172 · Newbie Joined: 06 Aug 2006 Posts: 5

i would like to also add that i was the same way for 3-4 years. it was a daily habit. but after reading all around on the internet. it made me stop due to being aroused by porn and not your woman. so instead of looking at porn i just go have a SMALL amount of liquor and that is that. what im trying to say is that it can be hard to overcome.

Ready_Lube · Silver Member Joined: 11 Apr 2006 Posts: 228 Location: AZ

perfectly normal. Don't be alarmed by it, enjoy it! You will meet someone soon enough and in the mean time use a good lube Wink

Elmo01 · Newbie Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 5

I masturbate alot too - i tend to vary it - based on my life - at times i will have multiple sesions, and climax multiple times - i can maturbate for about 10 minutes - up till probly 4 hours (yes - i have studied how to do it)

i have had merely 2 partners (both still friends) so masturbating really helps me learn to last until the other is satisfied. depending on experiance (i see your a virgin) masturbation will become less meaningfull as you learn to love more then just pleasureing yourself.

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Ok. As always your getting a lot of mixed views. Some say its good, some say its bad. I know when I think I'm doing something wrong I try to find all the ways its good or ok. Who would go to a forum about masturbation if they thought it was right. Deep down they know it isn't and their kidding themselfs.

I had a problem with masturbation and it came down to two things. Will it ruin my attitude toward women? ( will I be able to talk to them just like I would a male.) and If it was sinful ( does God exist.)

I can't answer those for you but in my opinion better safe than sorry and stop.

How I was able to stop: I wore a bracelet around my ankle that just constantly reminded me. I wrote tallies each day I didn't masturbate encourageing myself to encrease the amount. I hope you can stop. I'm only 14 so I know what you mean, but trust me yu'll feel better about yourself too. LET WILL POWER WIN!

Elmo01 · Newbie Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 5

Masturbating isnt "bad" for your health. but the spots you see - are not a "problem" it can be due to pressure (too much) or friction (please use a lubricant)

health wise - masturbating releases hormones which if used to often can cause you to be jittery, fatigued and excessivly parionoid. most compare the side efects to scizophrania and depression - -

but the thing is - this happens if you masturbate almost every hour or so (up to 12 times a day)

dont be too worried.

cuckoohead · Newbie Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 92 Location: Boston,M.A.

thats a lie.Masturbation does not cause none of this.Masturbation is anormal habit and it is natural.Thats like saying I'm going to go crazy from eating a sandwhich.The only side effect is that it can be sore.But if u rub any body part as fast and hard than that would be sore too.Ejaculating a lot helps secure the chances that ur not going to get prostate cancer

badAssJack · Newbie Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 28

well im not into scientific things but a while ago if i used like umm shampoo my penis like..............scratch that......... masterbating is fun thats all their is too it it can have some side effects but that doesnt matter cause they arent doing ne thing..................

novrod · Posted: 06/10/07 - 06:46 Post subject:

Hi,

I was trying to find some people that could be in the same situation as me and I think I found the right place.

I have the same story as the average guy. Started to masturbate when I was 10 or 11 and never stopped since then.

I have a girlfriend I love, with whom I'll get married, but I do have a problem. Despite the fact I have a normal erection and give a lot of pleasure to my girlfriend, I do not manage to get a single orgasm.

What I am writing here I never told her. We were both virgins when we met (12 years ago) and we started having sex a few months after. What I have never told her is that I have never been able to have an orgasm with her.

Yes, I could endure for a long time having sex with her but in the end I kind of feel frustrated because I never manage to have an orgasm.

I believe the problem might be masturbating too much. It is very rare when I don't masturbate 1-2 times a day, and many days many times more.

Some people say and I quote "you've desensitized you penis muscles". Can it be true? (I am a god damn biomedicine scientist and I know all about the nervous system - it is a question I actually know the answer).

But the real point is, I do have to stop masturbating as I do. I am always surrounded by porn. I don't remember how many times I erased all the files from my computer but I always manage to rebuild a huge collection.

I do have a problem. Please, HELP

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