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oxoxbrittoxox986
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 Posted: 06/08/07 - 19:04 Post subject: Help, How do you give a proper b.j? im soo nervoussss. |
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| My boyfrienn wants me too, and i mean i want it for him so bad. and everytime i saay that i might i always change my mind and he gets disappointed. i tried too tell him that i was nervous and its my first time and that i dont want to make a fool out of myself because i want too be perfect, i never want to mess uup in front of him. he tells me that ill be amazing because i was at all my other firsts and that he would never make fuun of me. idk what too do, im so scared and i reaaly dont know how... can anyone pleaase help?![/b] |
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lrdicuss
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| Posted: 06/08/07 - 22:46 Post subject: |
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umm do what you think is right, but don't treat it like a straw in a frosty @ wendys...
-Ze Eric |
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ShortDrew
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| Posted: 06/09/07 - 05:25 Post subject: Re: Help, How do you give a proper b.j? im soo nervoussss. |
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| oxoxbrittoxox986 wrote: | | My boyfrienn wants me too, and i mean i want it for him so bad. and everytime i saay that i might i always change my mind and he gets disappointed. i tried too tell him that i was nervous and its my first time and that i dont want to make a fool out of myself because i want too be perfect, i never want to mess uup in front of him. he tells me that ill be amazing because i was at all my other firsts and that he would never make fuun of me. idk what too do, im so scared and i reaaly dont know how... can anyone pleaase help?![/b] |
It's your first time, you can't be expected to be perfect. The whole idea of growing up works on a basis of "trial and error", so the best thing to do is just try it out, see if you like it, if not, stop, if you do, ask him what you can do to make it better for him if it aint 'perfect'. Basic advice for a blowjob;
1. try not to use too much teeth, a bit is great for stimulation, such as lightly dragging your teeth over his cock, but otherwise, too much pressure with teeth can just be painful
2. using your tongue to massage the head of the penis feels great as it has the most nerve endings in the area, but don't neglect the shaft and possibly scrotum if you want to go there
3. move at your own pace, don't let him gag you unless you want him to, practice can help you get more in your mouth, so go slow at first
4. keep it safe and hygienic, having a shower before doing anything sexual can be help stimulation, do you want to smell a dirty penis? also, don't poke your eye out
5. Have fun!
Drew. |
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oxoxbrittoxox986
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| Posted: 06/09/07 - 12:06 Post subject: |
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Alright thanks,
im still sortaa nervous.. i dont know why.
i see myself as being ready and i feel ready,
but when it comes too doing it i chicken out..
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ShortDrew
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| Posted: 06/09/07 - 18:32 Post subject: |
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 when I was with my girlfriend (we broke it off a while back) we took everything slow. I respected her wishes with things and if she was unsure about something, we'd wait until she was confident to do it. Just take things slow if you have to, just enjoy your time together! |
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Confused32893
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| Posted: 06/15/07 - 21:51 Post subject: |
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Well, alright brit-tit....
We went over this already.
And I gave you a visual.
bahaha
i love you dear.
And if you dont want to do it.
Mike cant make you.
You are your own person, with your own thoughs on sex.
Dont let his anger at the situation.
Make you do something you will soon regret.
ok?!
I loveee you
And if he makes you do it.
Ill slap nigg:) |
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