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skeflma
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 Posted: 03/20/07 - 04:09 Post subject: Help; My boyfriend is uninterested in sex |
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Hello.
My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. He is 24 years old, I am 20. When we first started dating we were having sex atleast three times a day, and over a period of four - five months it stopped altogether. for four months now we haven't had sex, and when I ask him about this my thoughts and opinions get shoved off as if they do not matter. I get told I'm being childish and that sex doesn't matter in an 'adult' relationship... but it is important to me, and many others I know! Is there something wrong?
So I'm just curious how common it is for a male in his 20's to be uninterested in sex? And what can I do to change this? |
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lty_patt
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OK, sex does matter in a adult relationship. intimacy is what conects you to one another. is he not interested at all in sex? How well do you know him? do you know him well enough to say that he is not cheating on you? a woman has a desire and need to feel wanted by her man. when a man doesn't give attention or intrest in his woman anymore, questions start forming in your mind exp: what have i done, do i feel good to him anymore, does he still find me attractive, is he cheating, ect.
if he truely cared about you your thoughts and opinions would matter to him and he wouldn't push them off. i would be upset if i was in your situation also but i don't put up with any crap.
i would flat out say "you need to talk to me about what is going on with our relationship, and if you refuse to talk to me about it, you need to find yourself another girlfriend." if he cares he will talk to you in fear that he might lose you. if he doesn't, get rid of him. there are other good men out there. |
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