Shiksa
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 Posted: 02/22/07 - 07:43 Post subject: Help! Retarded Ejaculation |
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| My husband and I have the best sex life I could ever have imagined. We've been together for 9 mos and married for 1. He is 45 and I am 27. I am in so much love and it's both of our second marriage. There's only 1 problem and that is he is unable to ejaculate inside of me. This makes it hard to get pregnant which we are trying to do. He is capable of masturbating and achieving orgasm. I'm almost positive that his problem is psychological as he was abused when he was a teenager and had a sexual addiction up until about 8 years ago and healthy now after much therapy. His previous marriage was close to a disaster as his sex would always end with her crying and blaming him for not reaching orgasm, what a monster he is (she knew about the sex addiction-mainly he just masturbated in front of people, exposing himself-anything to make him feel like crap)and so on. He keeps this in his head I'm sure. He is also worried that he's taking too long when he does try and that I'm not feeling good. I tell him to not worry about me for once, but this hasn't worked. I am so confused, worried and upset that he seems to compare his last marriage to ours when all I do is adore him and work hard to please him. He had two kids with her whom I absolutely adore but resent him, her and them for his being able to conceive "normally" with her. I seem to have to pay for her abuse. I do not make him feel bad about not ejaculating and keep telling him we'll do what it takes to conceive. It just really bothers me that he couold do it with her-only twice mind you-and not me. Help!!!! |
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