Help with my gf and masturbating

wonderinguy · Newbie Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 23

Hi i'm a guy about 17 years old and i have a gf also 17 and we have been going steady for 2 or so years. we enjoy having sex and before sex we masturbate each other quite frequently. however, i get the feeling that she doesn't like what i do. i've tried asking what's better but she doesn't really like talking about it. any suggestions?

Ninja1200 · Supporter Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 307 Location: USA

Spend some time reading female masterbation technics to learn what works for them. In my experiance, women prefer stimulation of their clit and the vaginal opening but penetration beyond that does little for them. If you can provide as much simultaneous sensory input as possible she'll enjoy it more. I usually use my mouth/tongue on the clit and then my fingers to massage the labia and vaginal opening. If the female seems like she wants some resistance I'll put a couple of fingers just inside but not too deep for her to 'bear down on' while I continue to stimulate the external genitals.

If you can work your way there and make her wait for it she'll probably enjoy it more as the tension you build getting there will make for a deeper arousal on her part. I sometimes bypass the vagina as I work my way down and go to her inner thighs and behind her knees and then make my way back.

Remember, women are like steam engines and men are like microwave ovens.

Help with my gf and masturbating

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