How Did U Get Pregnant??

Guest · Posted: 11/11/06 - 16:50 Post subject:

like they said your probally to young but you do what you wnat but really maybe you should try telling your parents i bet hey'll be supportive they probaly will be kmad but the ycool down!

Guest · Posted: 11/20/06 - 18:08 Post subject:

i was 15 wen i first got pregnent and i had an abortion without telling any one it was the worse descion ive ever made u wont relise till its to late just how it actually feels. im 16 now and pregnet again i told my perants this time and i wish i told them before because they are being so supportive i no you may not think it but ur mom and dad love u and they will do wateva it takes to help. hope this helps.

kobeno · Newbie Joined: 22 Nov 2006 Posts: 5

My only advice is to believe in yourself. What does your heart tell you? Do whatever it takes to follow your instinct. Do not let other people sway you in your decision, but do listen to people so that you make a sound decision. Write down your thoughts to keep a clear head. Do not make a decision based on the way you feel in one day, but how you feel over several days. WRITE WRITE WRITE! You are the only one who knows what you should do. Listen to other people's advice and consdier them in your decision making. Talk to young women with children. I volunteer mentoring a teen mother and understand the difficulties and the joys. I also know a person who had a child at 14. She is really successful now, but she did go through a lot of hardship. What kinds of support can you take advantage of? Get informed. Asking for advice is a great step in this process...well done for asking the first question. Think of making your decison as different steps in the process. What other questions do you have? What other informatio should you get? Create a roadmap suitable to your situation.

All the best

amb12387 · Newbie Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 72

You have to tell your parents soon. You need help. They may be mad at first, but they love you so they will support you. Having a baby means making huge transitions in your life and at 14 you are not ready to face that alone. You need emotional support. And if you keep the baby you will need help raising it. My guess is the father won't stick around at such a young age. Knowing you are pregnant can be a scary thing, especially at your age, but you can do this with the help of people who love you. Don't be afraid. Everything will turn out ok. Just have faith.

metalpat · Newbie Joined: 12 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

abortion is murder tell your parents i was 11 wen i got pregnant im 15 now, i was raped they were there for me so tell some1 you trust cus if you dont they will find out somehow so just tell them

mykid03 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

I know it is hard to believe about being pregnant. But I know you didnt ask to get pregant nor did the baby asked to be killed. Give it a chance at life. My best friend did get one and now she regrets it alot, she thinks about what they child would have been. I know if my daughter came to me and told she was pregnant I would support her in her choice other than killing it. If your give it up you still have a chance at life and so does the baby. They are soooooooo many single couples that want babys but cant have them. Iam only 23 I have a 3 year old daughter she is my world and never take her back and manage to take care of her and have a job. Childern bring so much joy to someone who doesnt have family like myself raised is foster care. I bet when your child grows up what ever choice to make will thank you for saving thier life. and net time just be really carefull sweetie and hope you make the right choice.

montana · Newbie Joined: 10 Jan 2007 Posts: 14

YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS ANYTHING, IF YOU CAN'T TRUST THE PEOPLE WHO GAVE YOU LIFE WHO CAN YOU TRUST? YOU ARE JUST A CHILD I THINK THAT YOU ARE TO COMFUSED AND DESPERATE TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOUR OWN RIGHT NOW SO YOUR PARENTS SHOULD NOW RIGHT AWAY, I AGREE THAT AT 14 YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX! IM SORRY YOU HAD TO GO TRU THIS AT YOUR AGE.

Secrets · Newbie Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

sexaygirl · Newbie Joined: 17 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

DONT GET A ABORTION, THINK OF YOUR BABIES LIFE OVER YOURS. YOU CHOSE TO HOP IN THE SACK WITH YOUR BF, YOU NEED TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUINCES INSTEAD OF TRYING TO TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT AND GET AN ABORTION. ALTHOUGH I KNOW LOTS OF GIRLS THAT HAVE GOTTEN AN ABORTION AND HAVE SAID THAT ITS NOT WORTH IT AND THEY HAVE WONDERED FOR YEARS AND KNOWN THAT THEY MADE THE WRONG MISTAKE, DO YOU WANT TO WONDER LIKE THAT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?? I JUST RECENTLY HAD MY 3RD MISCARRIAGE AND READING THE COMMENTS TO GET AN ABORTION MAKES ME SICK. THESE GIRLS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, AND HONESTLY ABORTION IS NOT THE WAY TO GO. OWN UP TO THE CONSEQUINCES YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN AND GROW UP. YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX AT 14, YOUR JUST A KID YOURSELF. GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR ADOPTION TO PEOPLE THAT WANT THEM AND FAMILIES THAT HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS TO HAVE THEM. YOU NEED TO LEARN TO BE RESPONSIBLE AND GET ON BC IF YOU ARE GOING TO CONTINUE TO HAVE SEX. GOOD LUCK IN MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION, IT WONT BE EASY BUT YOUR PARENTS WILL BE GLAD TO HELP.

kyliesmom21 · Newbie Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 6

i was pregnant at 16. i thought i loved the guy. i was scared to death. i didnt tell anyone. then i had a miscarriage. it was the worst feeling in the world. now i am 20 going on 21. i have an 18 month old little girl. she is the light of my life. once again i thought i loved the guy. he was 27 and a marine. well he didnt love me and kylie enough to stick around. hunny if you want to keep this baby do it. i was a high school drop out, i went and took care of my maternal grandmother while i was pregnant. now i have my ged, i am going to school to be a nurses aide to later work on being an rn, and i am a part time child care provider. so if you want to keep the baby, do it. i dont feel like you should have an abortion because if you felt you were grown enough to sleep with a guy then you need to be grown enough to be a mom. but you are so young and dont even have a license. and if he isnt going to be there, it is very difficult being a single mom. people discriminate against you and look down on you. just keep your head up and talk to your parents. i might be pregnant again and i cant wait to tell my family because my fiance is definately sticking around. well i guess this is long enough. just remember before you have an abortion that there are plenty of people who want to have a baby out there who cant so adoption is a choice. whatever you decide will be best for you adn that baby. then go to a plannedparenthood place and get birthcontrol. or practice abstinence. please you are just a child. go live your life and have fun.

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