How Did U Get Pregnant??

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im 15 years old and i ve never had any sexual experiences i think its very wrong for you to have sex at a young age because you might not even know if you have a disease now and pregnancy is very hard to avoid now that you are pregnant even if you want to abort you still did what you did and got pregnant i belive in "no sex out of marriege or at least until your a matured adult" if i got pregnant my parents would kick me out of the house because i didnt obey their rules which i agree with. so if you need help i think the first step is to talk to your parents and tell them because later or sooner you will face them, even if they hate the desicion and kick you out of the house you can just talk to other teenagers that are pregnant and talk to your counceler and if you do decide to keep the baby then just give it up to a responsible parent or parents and everything will be ok.remeber you are not the only one!!

lty_patt · Posted: 03/21/07 - 08:01 Post subject:

to have sex is the decision of the person who is going to do it. a lot of people think it is wrong to have sex at such a young age or before you are married. It is your decision, so don't let anyone put you down or make you feel guilty for the decisions you make.

With sex comes great Responsibilities, like prgnancy, or std's ect. you are a very young girl. you need to talk to your parents sugar. don't be afraid to do so. i know it is scary and you are afraid of what they will say or do but there is only one way to find out, and that is by telling them. who knows, they might even be happy for some people see this as a miracle not a burden.

it is your choice to have this child, not anyone elses. Just think about what is best for you and the baby. if you decide to get a abortion because you think that is best, then do it. if you want to give it up for adoption, then do it.

what ever you decide to do, just remember to be more responsible about sex in the future. you don't want this to happen again okay unless you are ready for it.

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well I am 16 and i think that i might just be having a baby and i am scard to even find out because i know that if i am so many ppl will be disappointed in me and i really dont want that Embarassed

but i am having bad pains in my belly and ned to get it checked out Crying or Very sad

but i am 2 scard Question

sarah-ex-uk · Newbie Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 8

sarah-ex-uk · Newbie Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 8

lty_patt · Posted: 03/22/07 - 07:44 Post subject:

it is scary to find out if you are pregnant or not. the sooner you find out the less you have to worry about it. stress can cause symptoms like what you are elplaining. my husban and i thought we were pregnant for sure. he was away at school and i told him that i would wait till he got home to take a pregnancy test. as the days went on we got more and more excited about it.

when he got home i took it. it came back negative. we were so scared thinking that we were going to have a baby. but as the days went on things got better to where we were so anxious to find out. we were actually disapointed when the test came back negative.

don't worry, you are gonna need help if you are pregnant, so you might want to find out so you can tell someone like your mom or someone close to help you. pregnancy is a bumpy road to drive down. you need not to worry about what other people think about you. all you need to worry about is your self.

don't forget it could just be stress.

motherof2angelz · Newbie Joined: 29 Mar 2007 Posts: 1

This is to the replay of user carifairy, it's someones decision on if they want to get an abortion or not, you could be doing alot of mental damage to the young girl by tell her that its so much easier to get an abortion. I cannot believe that you would put a price tag on a price of a life. It's a tough decision to make and when it alls comes to an end alot of women who have made the decision to get an abortion, have said they regret it and need to get therpy.

babygurl900 · Newbie Joined: 03 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: some where

Well 1st of all for all u people tellin her what to do with her life aint right at all yes i understand that she is 14 but it would be really hard knowing that you gave up your baby because people are telling you to i think myself that it is up to her if she wants to keep it or not no one can make her have a abortion to me have a Abortion is like giving up a part of your own body like come on the gurl is asking for help because she has no one to talk to ...i don"t think its rite to have a Abortion myself and at 14 you really shouldnt be having sex anyways lol i waited to have sex when i was 16 if you didnt want to have a baby at a young age then maybe you should be on the pill or something or not letting him do that inside of you ...but thats just me people can think what they want but i think it is like giving up a part of your body and that aint right to me ... Evil or Very Mad

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hi ok first of all good for you for turning to even the computer for help... when i was 15 i had sex for my first time i was on birth control for my acne and my boyfriend wore a condom....well the condom broke and apperantly the pill didnt work very well cuz i got pregnant....i went for 2 1/2 months without anybody noticing not even my boyfriend....and i was in school and i got such bad cramps that it felt like someone had shot me and i had miscarried.....but now i am 18 and with my long term bf and i am pregant he doesnt want to keep it and wants me to get an abortion...but im not it is my choice and it is your choice to abortion is only bad if you look at it the wrong way... but in your case i would look on the bright side of it you are only 14 and if i had my baby i probably wouldnt have met my fiance and would have dropped out of school and who knows where i would be ..BUT TELL YOUR PARENTS OR A SCHOOL COUNCILER!!!!! PLEASE for the babues sake and yours

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