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 Posted: 11/30/07 - 05:38 Post subject: |
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| sarah-ex-uk wrote: | | kayla wrote: | | Carifairy wrote: | I had an abortion at 20 because I felt I was too young to have baby..
AT 14 YOU HAVE NO health insurance on yourself, and no money.. You have to think what is best for the baby, is it best to have a baby with no money and no college? That is up to you to decide.
BUT YOU DO NOT NEED Parental consent for an abortion. If you need anymore info let me know....
BUT it may be a good idea to tell someone you trust. BECAUSE PRENATAL CARE IS EXPENSIVE, AND abortion is 375$ |
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTIAN, that is murder,and is hard on your body. if you do not want to or feel you are to young to take care of the kid give it up for adoptian, give it a chance. |
Two very opposing strong views.
And both mis-leading. And scary to a 14 year old.
To the initial poster. Talk to someone adult you trust. Friend, teacher, whoever.
Don't do anything you will regret later either way. Families are often more supportive than you expect them to be.
If you choose abortion, it's not murder, it's only cells. If you choose to keep it, love it, look after it, and things WILL work out.
Don't let annon folk with strong views persuade you either way... Talk to someone who knows you, you trust, and make a decission you won't regret.
And for the record, I am pro-choice, either way. |
Guess what? You and I are "cells" too.
If scientist call microscopic bacteria from another world "Life". Then what do you call living organisms in Earth?
You have to take responsibility of the choices you make. If you are mature enough for having sex, then you are mature enough to take responsibility for the consequences of your actions.
Talk to your parents. Share your every thought, don't hide anything from them. Talk about all other possibilities, not just the easy way out. That's wrong. |
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| Posted: 12/08/07 - 16:19 Post subject: |
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This topic saddens me deeply. There are so many of us who have been trying, desperately for a long time, to have a child. If the 14-year-old doesn't want to keep the baby because of the future she could not provide, please allow the gift to those of us who have been waiting.  |
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| Posted: 12/11/07 - 00:02 Post subject: hey |
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| that is really hard to shallow i would tell my parents they will be mad for a while but they will get over it they always do cuz at the end up happy. best of luck to you |
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| Posted: 02/28/08 - 10:59 Post subject: Re: How Did U Get Pregnant?? |
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| scaredteen92 wrote: | | dove wrote: | | I have a big problem. I am only 14 and recently I found out that I am pregnant. I am afraid to tell this to anyone. My parents will kill me when they find out. What should I do? I need help and I have no one to talk to. |
hey Dove i'm 15 and i just had my bday june 4th so don't freak what i did is i went to my uncle's house and they sinced something was wrong so i told them and one of them took me home and talked to my mom for me i'm today 10 weeks pregnant so don't worry just find someone that will listen to you and that your mom will listen to and tell them... and yes i did hide behind someone because i have had scares in the past and i wasn't sure what she would do...if you are more able to talk to your father talk to him first and let him drop the bomb on your mom or the other way around...oh and here is a website for mothers-to-be and mothers....
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hey honey i am 20 years old and i have a 5year old little girl and i love her to death and yeah i was young and so are you but do not go out and kill that baby because you will be killing a life. If your parents love you they will get mad at first and then they will look over it but you need to tell the boyfriend tho too. |
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| Posted: 06/19/08 - 14:50 Post subject: |
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Getting pregnant at 15, I can relate to you. I knew I was pregnant for 3 weeks before I finally cracked to my mother. The best way to tell your parents that you're pregnant is to just come out with it. DO NOT LISTEN TO WHOMEVER SAID YOU DO NOT NEED PARENTAL CONSENT FOR AN ABORTION. However, every state has different laws regarding pregnancy but there is NO state that allows someone under the age of 14 to have an abortion without parental consent. Many states do not need parental consent but they do need to know that the parent is AWARE that you are having the abortion. Speaking from experience, terminating a pregnancy at your age has its positives and negatives. There is a lot of emotional baggage that comes with post termination as well as you feeling like it's okay because you are so young and that is an excuse for your mistake.
The best thing to do is trust your parents, mainly your mother, she is the only one that can really help you in this situation other than yourself. |
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| Posted: 06/26/08 - 15:21 Post subject: |
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| Please abortions are not the way to make your mistakes go way..because it will always be with you..so please stand up for your errors that you make. |
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