How do i stop my 7 year old from masterbaiting?

She calls it her exersizes. She will sit down on a chair and start rocking. She sometimes puts something between he legs. When she is done she will usually do it again 5 min later. She does it alot usually when she is sitting down or bored. We try to keep her ocupied but we can't forever. She says she doesen't do it at school but i dont know if its true. I want her to stop so she doesn't do it when my 12 year old daughter's friends are over or when we have guests. When she is doing it in the TV room i tell her '' remember you need to do that in private" but she will say something like "go somwhere else then" or "i was here first". Any ideas how to make her stop?

Dont try to make her stop as it is natural instead try to set rules about where she can do it and when. Dont say do it in privert say she may only do it in her room by her self or something.

how she lern in the frist places

i thin that if she wants to explore herself and find the pleasure of masterbation u should let the girl

I've been reading articles on this lately and a few things you can do is just suggest it's not something you do in public because it's not a good 'social' thing to do. There are things you can do in public and things in private: You don't typically pick your nose in public, but many do in private(just watch people in their cars)... You put clothes on in public, but you don't when you shower in private; It is seen as something that is not right to do when people are around; and there are many other ways to have fun and feel good than to do that.

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I've been reading articles on this lately and a few things you can do is just suggest it's not something you do in public because it's not a good 'social' thing to do. There are things you can do in public and things in private: You don't typically pick your nose in public, but many do in private(just watch people in their cars)... You put clothes on in public, but you don't when you shower in private; It is seen as something that is not right to do when people are around; and there are many other ways to have fun and feel good than to do that.

He means that no one would ever do it in public and I heard that people may start masterbaiting at the age of 7 but anyways it is natural when it is done in private and it is definetly not wanted to be done in public,so what it also means is that it is just a part of life and is also a part of puberty so it is definetly natural.And yes you can still set rules of where she can do it.

just put her in a nappy like a baby and tell her she cant take it off

it's a medical condition ask your doc

I would suggest the last two posts are inaccurate.
Masturbation, at pretty much any age is normal, and not something to get concerned about unless the "habit" starts to interfere with other aspects of normal life.

What is not so normal is the displayed lack of agreed boundaries. Her saying "I was here first" is an example of the tail wagging the dog.
When telling a child what is acceptable (and not), offer the reasoning appropriate for the age, and make it clear that behaviour "X" is not tolerated, behaviour "a" is, behaviour "x" (this one) is, but only in private areas (bedroom, or bathroom...you decide.)

This is getting slightly OT, but it is broadly related to the question.
I think it's important to not make a big deal about the masturbation, but breach of discipline, once "let go", can turn into a nightmare problem.

Learn to separate these areas, but spot when they overlap, and learn the appropriate disciplinary techniques (which absolutely should not include hitting, etc, but may include things like "time out", progressive loss of privileges etc.)