bbfeet9
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How many times a week SHOULD you masterbate or could masterbate?
You can any time you want. Once, twice threetimes a day, whatever flips your switch i guess!!
There is no time frame for that. It's just whenever the urge hits, go for it. |
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Kirk C
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| Posted: 05/14/08 - 15:42 Post subject: How often? |
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I remember asking this question of a trusted teacher when I was in 8th grade forty years ago... And I phrased it just about the same way!
While masturbation will not hurt you, and there is no upper or lower limit to how often you can do it, there are some practical limits for a boy.
First, if your body has had enough, it will not respond. That is, until it gets a rest, your body may not find anything stimulating enough to arouse it to climax. And erections may not last long. This would be your body telling you that it's pooped!
On the other hand, if your body continues to respond, and it doesn't hurt to come again (sometimes described as "blue balls") then why not?
The answer is, a person who is obsessed with their sexual response and ignors other interests is not a very pleasant person to be around.
At your age, you need to learn to balance your sexual experience with other interests. They can include sports, girls, studies, family, religion, reading, entertainment, etc.
Only you can tell how important these other pursuits are to you. And over time, some will become more important and others will fade. If you're spending all your time in your bedroom trying to come, you need to get out more. But, it IS also important to understand and learn about your individual response and what pleases you. Over time, you will. But for now, limit how much time you spend alone... and go out and mix with friends your own age. There's a lot more to life. |
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